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{{Breathe in...Breathe out}}

Ladies, I have no idea why this is happening but I finally admitted it 

I'M STRESSED!!!

1st it was the officiant, then it was cake thankfully she was sooooo considerate and we got all the solved, NOW the florist!

So I called last week to remind him I was still wanted to see a mock of the low centerpiece to see if we were on the same page. He said "oh yes when can you come not this weekend but next weekend should work just call me next week so we can set-up a time"

FINE! Fast forward to last night I called long story short he was like you left me hanging. you were suppose to come on Sunday at 2pm to see the mock up. I said excuse me! Surprised yeah I have it noted that your were coming on Sunday at 2pm. we went back an forth I told him maybe thats what he told himself and forgot to call me and let me know but if I would of known that I would of showed up since I am the one requesting the mock-up. And Ladies his nickname to me is "the MOST organized girl I've ever met" 

Well he said let me send you a pic ....sent it to my cell my mouth dropped. Besides the fact the flowers were wilted NOT what I asked for not even close to the pic I left. I wanted to start crying (it must be the stress) FI was like get it together get on the phone...(he works in customer service and also when bill collector call out of wk he fills in so he can be the biggest @sshole) tell that fool (he used another termWink) look this is what I want and thats why I gave you a picture of  a few months back. 

FI was like $ talks you tell him how much does that centerpiece cost $50...fine here is $50 re-do it for me and I want it done right like I said and I get to take it home with me.  PERIOD!

So like a good girl I got on the phone...I said what he told me to say and his tuned changed...he said he would have a mock the way I want it on Sunday @ noon and he finished the convo saying I'm so glad we are talking. Undecided

Girls, I'm trying to remain calm and I hoping this florist works out. 

End of Vent {{breathe in breathe out}}

Re: {{Breathe in...Breathe out}}

  • jagore08jagore08 member
    Seventh Anniversary 5000 Comments 5 Love Its Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    *said in a quiet monotone voice... as you lay on the therapists couch with your eyes closed Wink*

    Just remember that the flowers are not important.  It's a small part of your day.  You're going to marry the love of your life.  It will be a good day.  

    Now keep repeating this to yourself until you say "I do".
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  • edited December 2011
    True that Jagore you are right...I feel better already Wink
  • edited December 2011
    Girl GET HIM!!!!!  You do like FI said – You let him
    know who’s “
    THE BOSS!”  Don't let him mess up your day and your look!!!
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  • edited December 2011
    Okay - girl you know I'm kidding - I had to post that.
    Everything will work out!
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  • Vans18Vans18 member
    Knottie Warrior 1000 Comments Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    Oh wow, poor thing! It's ok...at least you got it worked out at the end. The last weeks suck because you have to finalize everything and make sure they are doing the job just how you asked them to. Well let us know how it goes on sunday. I hope its just want you want. :)
  • nikojammnikojamm member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh, Girl, I'm sorry to hear all this.  I know how I felt hoping all would turn out right, and honestly, everything was great!  Yours will be great too!  Just do as the PP said and try to remain calm and see how things go on Sun.  This guy has to get it together or else!!!  GL! 
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