My partner proposed to me on Monday in a quiet moment at home together, and since he knows by now that buying something for me without my input is a bad idea, he didn't have a ring for me yet.
So after I said I would love to marry him and then cried a little bit, we discussed rings and ended up planning to use an inexpensive "placeholder" ring for a while, and then get a "real" ring.
First unconventional ring:
At an independent new-age book/incense/jewelry shop near our home, he bought me a lovely silver ring with a pale aquamarine stone that could be mistaken at first glance for a diamond. In addition to being pretty, it serves the purpose of preventing the awkwardness of telling people I'm engaged and their eyes immediately darting to an empty wedding finger.
Second unconventional ring:
A few years ago, my grandmother gave me and my cousin each a diamond from what once was a pair my great-grandmother's earrings. Unfortunately, she got rid of the original setting and gave it to me in a bulky, uninteresting setting that doesn't do the diamond justice and makes me afraid I'll lose it. As his engagement gift to me, instead of buying a new ring, he's going to have my antique diamond re-set in the setting of my choice, with any side stones I like. I'll finally be able to enjoy my grandmother's diamond.
I've already cleared the plan for the diamond with my family, so I'm not really worried about it making anyone important angry or anything, but I was curious what people on here think of it. I'm interested to know what kind of reactions I can expect from people who ask about my ring while I'm wearing the placeholder, as well as from people who find out the story of using a diamond that FI didn't buy.
"I wish yo azz all tha dopest up in yo' marriages"