My BF and I have been dating for 19 months. In July we started seriously discussing marriage. We both want to but wanted ti talk about several things first. Well, two days ago, we discussed the last of the 'hot topics' (religion, kids, finances, etc) and found our lifestyles and goals mesh surprisingly well. So while before it has been 'if we get married', it's now 'when we get married'.
We've discussed the wedding and honeymoon (attire, style, location), but no date. He says he still wants to 'officially' propose with a ring.
So does this count as being unofficially engaged, or are we still BF and GF?
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