Ok, so I've been engaged for a total of 3 weeks. And already I feel like pulling my hair out. I'm from New Jersey, and he's from Maryland. I relocated to Maryland and purchased a house with him leaving my entire family in New Jersey. So here's the problem. Do I get married in New Jersey or Maryland? My dad has said he wants me to get married at home... I don't even know where to look, or what place to be interested in. I seriously need help and advice. Is it to soon to even be looking at this stuff. I feel so lost. Help me please!