My fiance and I got engaged a couple of months ago. Friends continue to ask us when the date is. Fiance just responds, "We haven't set a date yet." I'm becoming concerned that he's hesitant about setting a date. We went to visit my family this past weekend for Father's Day. My fiance made a comment about how everyone kept asking when the wedding would be. I explained that most people have a date in mind after they get engaged. He responded, "But we're not most people." He said he could see us getting married anywhere from 300-900 days from now. I looked at him quizzically. Then he said, "What's the rush?" Ugh. I don't know the best way to talk to him about this. If he's saying "what's the rush?" then I really don't understand why he proposed.