My fiance and I have been engaged now for about 6 months. I'm still in school and we planned on a long engagement (a few years) because we are paying for the wedding ourselves. My concerns lie within my fiance's inability to save money. He's working full time and I feel guilty about telling him how to spend his hard-earned money, but with a large wedding to plan and bills to pay, am I wrong in thinking we should put off the 90-gal saltwater fish tank? How can I get him to understand that I see the money being spent as our wedding going down the drain even if we have a few years to plan? Please help! Any advice is welcome. Thank you!!