So I've been with my fiance for 3 years and engaged since Christmas Eve of 2010. We're getting married on November 17th 2012. Sometimes when I talk to people about getting married and my wedding plans I get kind of shy about it because I'm only 20 and I can't help but feel like they're somehow secretly judging me about getting married young.
it was the same way when I got engaged and people wouldn't say anything about me having an engagement ring. Or I think my favorite response was oh I just thought It was another ring... And even with my twin sister I feel like sometimes its almost like she doesn't take it seriously like i'm not actually going to get married or something, I don't know.
Like when I go to talk to my Mom or Aunt about it they don't change the subject but its almost like they're uncomfortable, I just feel bad because I just started planning within the last two weeks and every time I call them to talk to them about and idea I had they seem like they're not 100% for it. And don't get me wrong they love my fiance but should I just not worry about what they think unless they voice something. I just feel like I don't really have anyone on my side of the family that I can really like call and talk about ideas and stuff with.
Last night my Aunt told me oh well its pretty far away so we have plenty of time to talk about these things, I was talking to her about have the reception and ceremony at her house. I just feel like okay its week two and I'm feeling awkward when i talk to them about my wedding plans.
And lastly I don't want to overload my mother in law with my ideas and stuff even though she is super creative and all about helping me its like, alright adult figures in my life I'm planning my wedding and haven't done this before, more a support system would be stellar
. I guess I just need to vent a little bit