WR: gifts

jojochanti

Did you send a thank you card to someone that didn't bring a gift? Like, "thanks for coming" or did you just not send anything? We have a few gifts that are unaccounted for and it seems so rude to not say thank you and there are also a few people that didn't get gifts and I really don't want to try to figure it out because that's awkward. Did this happen to anyone else? Did you send thank you's to everyone?

amberg321

We sent Thank You's for the gifts but we didnt have any unaccounted gifts. Thats a tough one. Did they not put their names on it or something?

Kasi80

I only sent TY cards to people that brought a gift.  There was 1 gift unaccounted for that I never knew who brought.   

sv4338

!Ahem! * Kasondra I didnt get a thank you! for my gift!

sv4338

Im just sending thank you cards to everyone that came *yes I havent sent em out yet* I know I know Im a terrible person....

Kasi80

I didn't send you one?  Uh oh...I remember it too!  Wonder if anyone else went under the radar.  I know Andrew's bro never got one.  I told Andrew to write it and he never did!

sv4338

Well in your defense you probably didnt know my address at the time :0) hehehehe

Kasi80

I could have called! 

sv4338

hehehe

jojochanti

The thank you cards that I'm ordering from shutterfly are almost $2/card with postage.. is it mean that I kind of don't want to spend the money to send people a thank you card just for coming? Like, thanks for eating our free food, drinking our free drinks and not even getting a card to say congratulations? When I type it, it sounds a lot b!tchier than in my head lol. I guess that the majority of that group is single guys, so it's expected? There were a few gifts that didn't have the cards attached by the time they made it to our house.. we literally had 6 cars/trucks full of supplies and gifts and it was a mess. so I figured out most of those and there are still like 2 or 3 gifts that I have no idea who are from. I don't want to ask because if it's someone that didn't get a gift, it makes it a bit awkward.

Kasi80

LOL Jojo!!  I get where you're coming from.  Don't send them a card.  Save the $...they did.  HEHE

amberg321

Were there 3 mystery cards that maybe feel off the packages? If you could at least know who the 3 belong to without even knowing which was from who  then that might help. BTW- I dont think its bitchy at all that you dont want to send a TY to everyone that came. I didnt

sv4338

There are some people Im sure didnt get us gifts but I dont really care Im just glad they came :0)Im ordering mine off of Shutterfly also but I think they are less than a dollar I didnt order the "thank you cards" Im ordering the "thank you note" Im pretty sure (sorry I cant look it up here at work)

jojochanti

Maaayn sylvia, now I feel like a b!tch! The ones I want are $1.59 (they are on sale for 1/2 off until today but our photographer is so graciously withholding our photos from us). ...atleast I am not the only one though.

mc108

I completely understand how you feel jojo!That being said we're sending thank you's to everyone who came, most peoplen didn't bring anything to be honest.

sv4338

Awww I wasnt trying to make you feel bad! I really am just super excited that we were FINALLY married and we were able to afford way more than we ever imagined :0) PLUS!!! I really did cut my guest list from 250 to 150 we only invited the people that meant alot to us :0) from out guest list there was less than 20 people that werent close to us example: my moms 2 girlfriends and his aunts best friend so that is why I dont care if we got gifts from all of our guests or not Im just glad they shared this day with us :0)! Now had we invited a bunch of people just cuz we felt obligated then heck yeah I'd care if they didnt bring a gift! :0)