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Anxiety or cold feet...??

I did a final walk through yesterday... Afterwards I was left with feelings of wanting to change my venue. I only have 39 days left, so thats not going to happen... but it just seems like I've done  all this planning for this ONE day and I feel like Im still not getting exactly what I want.

Ive changed my venue and date 3 times and Ive gone through 2 wedding gowns. I just want this to be over so my mind can stop obsessing. I just want to enjoy the special day of love with my honey.
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Re: Anxiety or cold feet...??

  • mrsfalanymrsfalany member
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    edited December 2011
    Just relax it will be beautiful it can't be changed so don't worry about it. Anxiety: just keep things the way they are no need to make last minute changes
  • edited December 2011
    The day is about you and your sweetie. Nothing else will matter the day of. Just remember what the day is truly about. (<---my FI told me this yesterday after I was obsessing over minor details)

    I think you have had too much time to think about what you want. And because it has been such a long time coming you have had a lot of time to change your mind.

    Where are you getting married at again?

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  • JuneMaggieJuneMaggie member
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    edited December 2011
    I think I can be the same way- I am so obsessed about the details I am afraid I will miss the 'party' so to speak... but I think I am finally so over it all, that it what it is- surrender!  It will still be perfect- because it is your wedding.  

    You can't change anything- the most important detail is you guys- so just keep remember that! 
  • desi2002desi2002 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_california-inland-empire_anxiety-cold-feet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:69Discussion:f364e262-e290-4d02-9629-6f2b2915279aPost:11e4cc5c-83a1-491a-9c21-957df0d0f429">Re: Anxiety or cold feet...??</a>:
    [QUOTE]The day is about you and your sweetie. Nothing else will matter the day of. Just remember what the day is truly about. (<---my FI told me this yesterday after I was obsessing over minor details) I think you have had too much time to think about what you want. And because it has been such a long time coming you have had a lot of time to change your mind. Where are you getting married at again?
    Posted by breleficent[/QUOTE]

    My date is July 1st. Thank you ladies for the advice!
    BabyFruit Ticker Image and video hosting by TinyPic me and my daddy
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