Hello everyone, I hope everyone is doing good. as for me well I am confused. My Fiance asked me to marry him last November with a beautiful engagement ring and i said yes. I just now found out he doesn't want a wedding, he wants to just have a quick "I do" with a justice of the peace and thats all. I want to have a wedding and reception, not real big but nice. At first he said it costs to much money for just "one day". I then said ok we can have a reception after and not a big wedding and he said yes.....The reception costs more then the wedding so Im not sure why he doesn't want a wedding.........any suggestions would be great...
Re: He doesn't want a wedding
Good luck!
So, you may want to have a real talk with him about what exactly bothers him, so you're not assuming something and it turns out to be another. I would explain the fees, ask about if being in front of folks bothers him, etc. Communication is the key!
We just had our one year anniversary last month. We did just as described above and it was a first marriage for both. We wouldn't change one thing and have no regrets. You are just as married in an expensive and stressful wedding. Avoid the expenses, any family drama (every body has one), and stress. We saved the money and paid cash for a house.
Good luck to you!