today I turn 41yo, how did that happen so quickly...this is a sad age for me, my mom was 41yo when my dad/her husband died. They had been married 20+ years and loved each other very much. Miss my dad very much espc. as we get ready for my wedding. my mother had the love of her life until she was 41 and I am going to begin may marriage to the love of my life when I am 41....I'm blessed to be able to grow old with my FI something that mom and dad didnt have. just reflective on this 41 birthday. Looking forward to a nice dinner with FI tonight.