How many of you ladies are writing your own vows? FI said he wanted to, but he's a GREAT writer so he's at a major advantage. I've started compiling examples of vows I like and quotes and stuff to kind of help me along but I'm still really overwhelmed. I know how I feel but I'm not sure I can put it into words. I don't want to sound too cheesy or try and be funny and have nobody laugh. Anyone else freaked out by this?