And I don't expect any of you to tell me, but I need to get this off my chest. Sorry if this gets long...My shower and bachelorette party are this Saturday. Two of my girlfriends offered to throw the events so they could be a part of things (my BP is all family). I accepted and just told my BM's I didn't need a 2nd event. Well the invites just went out 2 weeks ago and I have recieved emails and calls that it was just too short notice and people can't make it. I will get over that, people are busy, not big deal, but I am disappointed a bit that they went out so late.Moving on to what hurts my feelings, I guess, is one of the girls that is helping to put on the party is not coming now. She has known about it for 6 months, will be there at 12:30 with the shower at 1:00 and then is not going to go to the bachelorette party part. She hasn't told me this yet... the other friend throwing the shower told me last night as she said she didn't want me to be hurt the day of when I found out. I guess my friend was going to come to dinner and when we all get on the bus to go out, just leave and not tell me. I don't know what to think of it. I know that not everyone can make every event, but she is helping to throw the events. I find it strange. The worst is just her not telling me. And I feel a little guilty that one friend is stuck doing everything. Anyway, I am surprised by it and didn't know what to think. Needed to vent!