Wow

shanding4787

Pretty sure we just got B listed...by my own aunt. My aunt just text me, asking if we were coming to her daughter's wedding. Her daughter is getting married in KC and it's been said since day one, she was only inviting aunts and uncles, which is fine. Now it's two weeks out from the wedding and she wants to know what our response is....um, no? Told her "We weren't invitied?" she said we were, she guesses we just never got the invite. She then proceeded to tell me that her daughter hopes I am not mad at her and all this stuff. I mean, I knew from the beginning I wasn't invited but you don't have to go into this long convincing speech of how we really did get invited. Just kind of a crappy thing to do to family.

lcatterton

Maybe, and JUST maybe, she changed her mind at some point and decided to extend the invites to more family members and thought that you had received one? Just a thought, but I don't know many details about your cousin's wedding and what not.

I just know that at one point we were planning on only inviting parents, siblings, and grandparents to the ceremony and that's what we started telling people, then we decided to add aunts, uncles, and cousins (bad etiquette, I know) to the list, and we told people that and then we decided to just extend the invite to everyone on our reception invite list, so people though different things and the end result isn't exactly what we spread around by mouth.