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FalconieriGriek

So I have started to get a lot of responses back and one came back with number attending 3 even though i only invited them as Mr. and Mrs.  It was my fiances dads guest so he called and said asked what the third person was and he said it was his daughter. Fine rude but okay... Than I was on facebook today on my fiances sisters page I saw the wife wrote something like oh so far Veronica is coming but the other two might come at the last minute!! Well needless to say I was pissed.  If the dad would have told me from the get go to invite them I would have but the list is already accounted for ugh. Just needed to vent

acm19821

ugh, so sorry jenn... that's super annoying and rude!!!

ssage

Oh Jenn...so annoying.  This is what parents are for though.  We paid for the wedding so I told my mom that her job was to take care of these type of issues.  My cousin was talking to her about getting the invite, etc. and made a comment how the one son and daughter would come but that the other son and his wife couldn't....(there are three kids, one daughter in law and then three grand children..eek)...i was like "mom, you have to call ehr back and explain it said "Mr and Mrs" and that if the three kids were invited, I would have put them on the invite and in any event, we can't afford them.  So, she did and thankfully my cousin was like "Oh, there names weren't on there...i didn't know for sure"...THANK GOD! 

I'd leave this up to FI to be firm and have him call his dad to say "hey, by the way, we saw...."

BellaSposa223

Sorry jen that's no fun... That's like my aunt who has a guest for my 14 year old cousin and she's not dating anyone

kristinanddan

Someone needs to call and explain that only mr and mrs were invited, and you're very sorry that the kids can't come, but you hope mr and mrs will be able to attend anyway.

summerbride11

so rude...and someone does need to communicate or reiterate, who is and isn't invited. as far as two more extra guests are concerned, i don't understand why the wife is discussing this with your FSIL and not you and your FI.  I went through alot of the same drama.  GL

Midgette

and sooo it begins!!!!!

sowwie girly!

manda26

If I were you I would have Fi tell his dad to call them and say who was invited. People are on budgets and weddings are so expensive - I can't believe people think this is ok!