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Re: Thursday..venting time

  • edited December 2011
    vent.....kinda

    i have a friend where everything is always about him and he doesn't think of anyone else when he does or says things. but i can't drop him because it makes me look like an asshole since he's been sick for the last 5 years with a pain disorder (which i truly think is psychosomatic, and many people agree) and just about all his other friends dropped him already. i really am one of like two friends that he has. but i'm getting sick and tired of it. yesterday he decided to come over to visit because it was the first time he's been able to drive in 5 years. congrats to him. but 5 hours later and about 15 hints that he needed to leave he was still f**king here. and then he had the nerve to guilt me that i "forced" him to stay at the wedding instead of leaving after the ceremony because he was in so much pain (which btw he decided to "announce" that he was leaving in my bridal suite with the entire wedding party and our parents there. really? you couldn't talk to me in f***ing private???)  and because of it he was sick and in pain for the rest of the week. keep it to yourself. i'm tired of the sob story and selfishness. i had ONE day and he still had to try to make it about him. i'm so done with it. but of course i look like the prick if i don't want to deal with him anymore. wtf bullcrap is that.

    and on top of it i'll be honest he was making me very uncomfortable while he was here yesterday.


    ok sorry just had to let that out.
  • edited December 2011
    I need a new job that pays better.  Because of the area that I work in I see the dollar figures that others make, Man I am underpaid especially since I just finished my MBA.  HH & I are struggling with bills so getting a better pay job would be awesome, I just hope I can find one.
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  • edited December 2011
    Took off tomorrow because FI and I were supposed to go to the Bronx Zoo. However, it is supposed to rain all day. Frown
  • edited December 2011
    the zoo is better when it's raining! just throw on a parka and have some fun! it will be empty so no lines or annoying screaming kids :)
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    edited December 2011

    loves my husband, he is very supportive, helps out with the baby but there is a TON more he COULD do...like empty the dish drainer, clean up some stuff when he sees I am clearly struggling....it just pisses me off...

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    edited December 2011
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    edited December 2011
    I'm really embarrassed that I am currently unemployed! (I had a year-long position end with nothing else coming up)... I know my worth shouldn't be in my job, but it's not a good feeling :-\
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