I'm pretty sure when it started, it was spead over all the boards. So I'm assuming it's everyone/random people. And yeah. Stripper lady, you should FO SHO tell your FI about your new 'job'.
I don't understand what kind of wedding is so important that a person is willing to strip as a second job and lie to her FI about it just to raise the money. Way to go into a new marriage, I'm sure the FI will be thrilled to find out what his new wife has been doing behind his back.
I feel like we had one of this stripper posts a while ago, too. Where do you come up with this idea for extra income? I can't imagine lying to my H about such a big thing like this and it can't be healthy for their relationship.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_kps-16?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:0513c6e1-31ab-4844-9ebd-974e3ae6fcb4Post:6035d083-cbe6-4f85-99b5-48fbc08c9343">Re: KPS</a>: [QUOTE]I feel like we had one of this stripper posts a while ago, too. <strong>Where do you come up with this idea for extra income?</strong> I can't imagine lying to my H about such a big thing like this and it can't be healthy for their relationship. Posted by waltzingmatilda13[/QUOTE]
This. Can't she just go sell her plasma or something?
I don't understand how the FI couldn't know. I mean... you just random disappear nights and he's not all "hey now, where are you off to all the time?".
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_kps-16?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:0513c6e1-31ab-4844-9ebd-974e3ae6fcb4Post:229ba7e2-c115-4359-92b1-430e31248ad3">Re: KPS</a>: [QUOTE]Yeah Alix, I was thinking the same thing. He's also probably wondering why she's paying all the bills in singles. Posted by annakb8[/QUOTE]
My thoughts exactly. Something's up with this chick.
Even if she could potentially, somehow hide this from her FI for a little while -- like maybe they don't live together? -- surely that's going to be impossible once they get married.
And not to be too judgy but it's hard for me to understand why anyone would want to strip-- she likes the money I guess? Or the attention.
I mean, no disrespect to whatever choices people make, but let's just say he goes out with the boys after work one night and they say - hey, let's hit up the local nudie bar! - then he walks in and his FI is spinning on the pole.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_kps-16?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:0513c6e1-31ab-4844-9ebd-974e3ae6fcb4Post:312e8036-fb4f-4442-8647-6e9693e46d09">Re: KPS</a>: [QUOTE]What's going to happen when he sees her there? I mean, no disrespect to whatever choices people make, but let's just say he goes out with the boys after work one night and they say - hey, let's hit up the local nudie bar! - then he walks in and his FI is spinning on the pole. Awkward. Posted by MRSBJS[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_kps-16?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:0513c6e1-31ab-4844-9ebd-974e3ae6fcb4Post:d2d8469d-c570-4d9f-ac1b-8596a47ff8e9">Re: KPS</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: KPS : Know what'd be even better? Bachelor party. Posted by alixzafiris[/QUOTE]
OMG - I can't even imagine. All I can picture is deer-in-the-headlights, frozen 1/2 way through a pole-spin.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_kps-16?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:0513c6e1-31ab-4844-9ebd-974e3ae6fcb4Post:1757a1da-2874-423d-ad6b-3220c06b05ee">Re: KPS</a>: [QUOTE]There's a Lifetime movie in which a guy calls a prostitute to his hotel room, and his daughter shows up. Now THAT'S awkward... Posted by TheCranberry[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_kps-16?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:0513c6e1-31ab-4844-9ebd-974e3ae6fcb4Post:1757a1da-2874-423d-ad6b-3220c06b05ee">Re: KPS</a>: [QUOTE]There's a Lifetime movie in which a guy calls a prostitute to his hotel room, and his daughter shows up. Now THAT'S awkward... Posted by TheCranberry[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_kps-16?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:0513c6e1-31ab-4844-9ebd-974e3ae6fcb4Post:00b5e941-7fd1-4a1c-b246-d6d172574a24">Re: KPS</a>: [QUOTE]It is possible that she strips during the day, though. Posted by aleighk1[/QUOTE] If she's doing this though, I'd imagine the "tips" aren't huge...thus she is in it for the attention...but maybe I'm naive about the number of men (or women) that hang out at strip clubs during the day<div> </div><div>On another note, I can think of about a bajillion and one other jobs I'd rather do than strip. I also know FI would FLIP OUT if I was a stripper and especially if I didn't tell him. I think many men feel that way about their wives/fiancees.</div><div> </div><div>ETA: Spelling edits</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_kps-16?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:0513c6e1-31ab-4844-9ebd-974e3ae6fcb4Post:58263c86-ae9b-4776-b985-79fe52299c0d">Re: KPS</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: KPS : If she's doing this though,<strong> I'd imagine the "tips" aren't huge...</strong>thus she is in it for the attention...but maybe I'm naive about the number of men that hang out at strip clubs during the day On another note, I can thing of about a bajillion and one other jobs I'd rather do than strip. I also know FI would FLIP OUT if I was a stripper and especially if I didn't tell him. I think many men feel that way about their wives/fiancees. Posted by July2012bride[/QUOTE]
This. Alot of strip clubs don't exactly have their "A" team working during the day - usually the hotter ones are at night (don't even ask how I know about this - I just do lol) - so I can't imagine she's making all that much money if she's not working at least one Thursday, Friday or SAturday night.
Re: KPS
I'm pretty sure when it started, it was spead over all the boards. So I'm assuming it's everyone/random people.
And yeah. Stripper lady, you should FO SHO tell your FI about your new 'job'.
[QUOTE]I feel like we had one of this stripper posts a while ago, too. <strong>Where do you come up with this idea for extra income?</strong> I can't imagine lying to my H about such a big thing like this and it can't be healthy for their relationship.
Posted by waltzingmatilda13[/QUOTE]
This. Can't she just go sell her plasma or something?
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[QUOTE]Yeah Alix, I was thinking the same thing. He's also probably wondering why she's paying all the bills in singles.
Posted by annakb8[/QUOTE]
My thoughts exactly. Something's up with this chick.
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And not to be too judgy but it's hard for me to understand why anyone would want to strip-- she likes the money I guess? Or the attention.
I mean, no disrespect to whatever choices people make, but let's just say he goes out with the boys after work one night and they say - hey, let's hit up the local nudie bar! - then he walks in and his FI is spinning on the pole.
Awkward.
[QUOTE]What's going to happen when he sees her there? I mean, no disrespect to whatever choices people make, but let's just say he goes out with the boys after work one night and they say - hey, let's hit up the local nudie bar! - then he walks in and his FI is spinning on the pole. Awkward.
Posted by MRSBJS[/QUOTE]
Know what'd be even better? Bachelor party.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KPS : Know what'd be even better? Bachelor party.
Posted by alixzafiris[/QUOTE]
OMG - I can't even imagine. All I can picture is deer-in-the-headlights, frozen 1/2 way through a pole-spin.
There's a Lifetime movie in which a guy calls a prostitute to his hotel room, and his daughter shows up. Now THAT'S awkward...
[QUOTE]There's a Lifetime movie in which a guy calls a prostitute to his hotel room, and his daughter shows up. Now THAT'S awkward...
Posted by TheCranberry[/QUOTE]
FTW!
[QUOTE]There's a Lifetime movie in which a guy calls a prostitute to his hotel room, and his daughter shows up. Now THAT'S awkward...
Posted by TheCranberry[/QUOTE]
<div>I'd say so.</div>
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[QUOTE]It is possible that she strips during the day, though.
Posted by aleighk1[/QUOTE]
If she's doing this though, I'd imagine the "tips" aren't huge...thus she is in it for the attention...but maybe I'm naive about the number of men (or women) that hang out at strip clubs during the day<div>
</div><div>On another note, I can think of about a bajillion and one other jobs I'd rather do than strip. I also know FI would FLIP OUT if I was a stripper and especially if I didn't tell him. I think many men feel that way about their wives/fiancees.</div><div>
</div><div>ETA: Spelling edits</div>
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KPS : If she's doing this though,<strong> I'd imagine the "tips" aren't huge...</strong>thus she is in it for the attention...but maybe I'm naive about the number of men that hang out at strip clubs during the day On another note, I can thing of about a bajillion and one other jobs I'd rather do than strip. I also know FI would FLIP OUT if I was a stripper and especially if I didn't tell him. I think many men feel that way about their wives/fiancees.
Posted by July2012bride[/QUOTE]
This. Alot of strip clubs don't exactly have their "A" team working during the day - usually the hotter ones are at night (don't even ask how I know about this - I just do lol) - so I can't imagine she's making all that much money if she's not working at least one Thursday, Friday or SAturday night.