My fiance and I spend a lot of time hanging out with one of my best friends from college and her husband. Although the guys met through my friend and I, they have become pretty good friends on their own. Now my friend and her husband have decided to get a divorce which, of course, is devistating for a number of reasons that have nothing at all to do with my wedding. My fiance and I are trying to decide the best way to handle this as far as having them at our wedding. Obviously, we still plan on inviting both of them. The divorice is not bitter and it is not as if either one was terribly mistreating the other, they simply found themselves going in very different directions and their marriage unfortunately did not survive. We plan on keeping them both as friends. However, their divorce may not even be final yet by the time of our wedding (this June) and we just want to be as sensitive as possible. My main question is whether or not we invite them with dates. All of our other friends are invited with dates and I really don't think either of them would cause a scene at our wedding over seeing the other with someone else, but I don't want to be responsible for anyone being uncomfortable at our wedding. What is the appropriate way to handle this?
