Okay, I'm not technically a reg on this board, but it is where I post the most so I'm no stranger to the barrage of B-list questions on this board. That being said, I have a question about one person.
A friend from HS is moving back to the states today. Invites went out last week. He has actually always been closer with my sis, but they have an on/off friendship and he has a tendency to piss her off. I however, have always enjoyed him and understand his antics come with the territory and he calls me "kid sister" and we have a funny, but not incredibly close, friendship.
I would like to extend an invitation to him, but not until after the RSVPs start coming back. I really enjoy him and a lot of our mutual friends will be there so it would make sense to have him. However, we are over budget but I know for a fact that several ppl can't come because of traveling. I feel like it would be irresponsible to add even one more person before the guest list gets back under control.
He moved back to my hometown so It's not like I would even have the opportunity to see him beforehand. So my question is, because he was never eligible to be a consideration when the invitations went out because he lived outside of the country, am I able to wait a little longer to extend an invitation to him? Or do I need to ask him right away? Or not at all?
