Really just needed to say that as our planner is collecting our RSVPS it amazes me at the responses (and lack of responses) we continue to get. So many people have yet to RSVP and their response has been "Well, I told you guys we were coming, so I didn't know we needed to put the card in the mail too!". Really, I cannot keep track of what one person tells me these days, let alone 200 ppl.
Several other people have taken it upon themselves to add 1,2, even 3 people to their RSVP card. Including all their kids and grandkids.
We have also had people say well I want to bring my baby/grandbaby - this will be a great opportunity to show him/her off and so everyone can see him/her - umm no, its not a great opportunity for that. One family member RSVPd with his kid and said this, and we had the whole "no kids" speech suggested so many times on this forum. I also suggested a list of childcare providers that our planners contracts with and he was not very happy and said "We know how to take care of our kids, thank you very much.". Uhh ok then.
And lastly, there are people we did not invite who have asked if we can just send them an invite so they can have one, b/c they are feeling left out. They said they won't come ,but would just like the invite!
I cannot wait to see what surprises await us with the next batch of RSVPs and special requests

What was your craziest/strangest/funniest RSVP story?
Re: Just another RSVP Vent
glad to know im not alone here!
I got everything from a cousin who RSVP'd with a guest named I Think So (who would be eating the Steak dinner) to another cousin who said, "Oh I didn't realize that 'no kids' meant 'no kids' for everyone" to MIL who said, "I didn't think this was an 'invitation only' event" AFTER we caught her 'personally' inviting people on Facebook.
Deep breaths.
Married!
I also had a friend who RSVPed for her and "guest" (who I assumed was her new boyfriend) and broke up with him like 2 days after I got the RSVP. So I'm waiting until she's not pissed off about the break up anymore to ask, "yeah, so about the guest thing..." I had another friend RSVP "Jim Jones and guest" with only one meal choice too. As if his guest doesn't have a name or want anything to eat.
40/112
My favorite is one of FI's friends said "yes" then said that he's still deciding between which of two girls he's bringing. Wow.
I told her I'm sorry but she couldn't bring her friend or her grandson because if her husband wasn't able to make it, it would leave room for us to invite other people that WE KNOW. We have limited seating of 100.
I'm 2 weeks out and we didn't have too many problems with RSVPs. We did the whole 'no kids' thing and only had 1 person think she could bring her kid anyway (I just called her and said, uh no, end of problem).
We had a friend of the family ask if they could bring their mom (who is about 80 and I've never met) because she will be in town and they didn't want her to have to sit in their house all alone most of the day/all night. Per my mom, she is coming, whatevs.
My purpetually single bridesmaid RSVPed with a date, so I asked her who she was bringing, to which she said, well I don't know but I hope I find someone. So I'm still waiting on that.
The craziest thing we got though happened this weekend. Got a facebook email from a girl I went to HS with, never once hung out one on one and haven't seen her in SEVEN years. She emailed to ask why she wasn't invited to the wedding. SERIOUSLY??? My response was: "Because I haven't seen you in 7 years, and even back then we were never close." Send. Hahaha.
Our due date for RSVPs was last Friday, and as of today we have received responses from everyone. Of course, I did a little harrassing via email last week and this past Monday-- that helps. Lots of "totally understand if you can't come, just need to know one way or the other for head count purposes".
250 invited, 179 coming.
@quotequeen - I am hoping you had 100 envelopes in your mailbox the other day too ;-)