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Thank you notes-Can I combine?

In a thank you card, can I have a thank you for both the shower gift and wedding gift in the same card or do I need to send two different cards? (shower was a week before the wedding so I didnt have time to write them out before the wedding) I just think it would be wasteful to send two cards and they would think it is weird to receive two cards in the mail at the same time. Thoughts?
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Re: Thank you notes-Can I combine?

  • Personally, I would send a thank you card for each gift separately. It shows that you took the time to appreciate each gift individually.
  • I would do separate cards. They took the time and money to buy separate gifts.I agree. Send them a week apart. Personally I would want to receive 2 thank you cards. The shower thank you card is typically just for the female guest anyways and the wedding card is for the couple (assuming there is a couple).
  • I think as annoying as it is, two cards would be appropriate. No matter when the events were held, each gift deserves its own note of appreciation.
  • Another vote for separate. Do all the shower thank yous first and then follow up with the wedding ones.
  • I'd do two cards as well. It was two events with two gifts. Do the shower notes immediately and get them in the mail tomorrow. Then get started on your wedding thank yous.
  • I would do one card - but you know your family/friends best.  If your shower were earlier I wouold do 2 ( I did separate cards but my shower was a month before).  Most of my family would prefer one card - why waste paper and more trees.  I would think it was funny to receive one thank you and then a thank you a week later.  You are taking the time to thank them either way which is the important thing.  Honestly if they are too up tight that they didnt get a card one week and a card for the wedding the next who freaking cares.  It dont really matter what they think - they will get over it.
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