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    - Your significant other watching porn: I don't care if he does or doesn't, as long as he doesn't lie about it if I ask.  He doesn't watch porn, at least as far as I know.  But if I ask him if he does, I hope he wouldn't lie about it.- Your significant other "taking matters into his own hands": eh...wouldn't really care, depending on the circumstances.  If he said no to sex and then did it?  Wouldn't be too thrilled.  If I'm not home and he feels he can't wait.  Whatev.- Your significant other going to strip clubs/strip clubs in general: has never been an issue, because he always says that he'd be too embarrassed to go to a strip club.  He's almost painfully shy, so I believe him.  If he wanted to go?  I don't know.  There would be an understanding -- no lapdances.  Looking is okay, touching is a no-go.- Accompanying your significant other to strip clubs: wow.  I probably wouldn't.  Mainly because he'd die of embarrassment.  And I'd feel really, really awkward.
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    - Your significant other watching porn Fine by me. He does it all the time. - Your significant other "taking matters into his own hands" Also fine by me. He has more of an appetite than I do, so it works out great.- Your significant other going to strip clubs/strip clubs in general Not so much. Not against strip clubs, just wouldn't want him going. - Accompanying your significant other to strip clubs I just wouldn't feel comfortable going. Plus, if I saw a girl touch him, I'd rip her tits off.
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    Your significant other watching porn:  Fine with me.  However, a friend of mine recently told me that her H has been doing stuff with web cams.  That isn't cool with me.Your significant other "taking matters into his own hands":  Fine and normal and healthy.  And as other people said, as long as it doesn't interfere with our sex life, I support and encourage it.  It's just different than sex. Your significant other going to strip clubs/strip clubs in general:  Again, fine with me.  He doesn't and it seems out of character for him, but I'm okay with it.  As long as it doesn't become a habit or a social thing, it's cool with me.Accompanying your significant other to strip clubs:  Is it bad to say I've always wanted to go but never have?  I'd totally be down for that.
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    I wish he did it more often. It would make my job easier.Haha sarah!  I was totally thinking the same thing!
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    1.  I'm ok with it.  We do this together occasionally.2.  That's his business.  Doesn't bother me . . . just as what I do doesn't bother him.3.  Not a fan of this.  Fortunately, he doesn't really want to go to the clubs, so it hasn't been an issue.4.  I would probably go with him, mostly out of curiosity.
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    What are your general feelings on each of these items:- Your significant other watching porn- I am okay with it... we watch it together sometimes. - Your significant other "taking matters into his own hands"- If I am home I would rather he do me but other than that I am fine with it- Your significant other going to strip clubs/strip clubs in general- doesn't  bother me, he's only been twice since we were together, once for a friends stag and then for his- Accompanying your significant other to strip clubs- I never have but if we went to a city where there were better strip clubs than the one around here I'm sure we'd go
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    - Your significant other watching porn  Oddly he doesn't. I probably would prefer we watch it together, but it wouldn't really bother me.- Your significant other "taking matters into his own hands"  Once again, doesn't really since we live together, but it wouldn't bother me.  However, my priest gave a huge lecture about the evils of "self abuse" last week. Awwwkward.- Your significant other going to strip clubs/strip clubs in general I guess I am the wild one in the relationship b/c I have been to both here. They are nasty. I would rather we go together.- Accompanying your significant other to strip clubs  I think it would be fun, but I would not be cool with another woman touching him. Nor are any of the strip clubs worth going to here.
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    - Your significant other watching porn: I know he has and I'm sure he still does, it's not something that bothers me. If I found really disturbing porn I might bring it up! - Your significant other 'taking mattes into his own hands': I'm glad he does because otherwise he would want to have sex ALL THE TIME and quite frankly I don't have the energy.- Your significant other going to strip clubs: the occassional visit with his buddies doesn't bother me but I would not want him doing the private room/lap dance thing. My boobs should be the only ones all up in his face. - Accompanying your significant other to strip clubs: I've been and really have no desire to go back, but I would if he asked me to.
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    - Your significant other watching porn: As long as it's boy/girl or girl/girl and not girl/goat or boy/boy I'm good.- Your significant other "taking matters into his own hands" I encourage it, he'd be cranky otherwise- Your significant other going to strip clubs/strip clubs in general. Doesn't bug me, I actually tried to talk him into getting a stripper for his bach party, and he had no interest.- Accompanying your significant other to strip clubs. Normally if he wanted to go I'd go with him, I've been to strip clubs on more than one occasion in the past. Going while pregnant though? Eh, I'm thinking no. I don't want to end up on [url]http://whythefuckdoyouhaveakid.com/[/url]
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    What are your general feelings on each of these items:- Your significant other watching porn I'm fine with it.  I'm not porn fan myself, but as long as he doesn't expect me to watch with him, he can watch as much as he wants.- Your significant other "taking matters into his own hands"  Not a problem.  A guy's gotta do what a guy's gotta do.  - Your significant other going to strip clubs/strip clubs in general  I would be fine with it. The way I see it is strip clubs are like porn - you're there to watch so it's completely harmless.  If he started frequenting them very, very often, I would have to give him the side-eye, though.- Accompanying your significant other to strip clubs  I would never go to a stripclub.  I think I would get embarassed for the strippers.  It's just not my thing.
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    - Your significant other watching porn [b]If it gets him going and then I get some? I'll press play.[/b] - Your significant other "taking matters into his own hands" [b]Um. Everyone does it. I would only take exception if he were doing that instead of doing me. If I'm losing out to Rosie... we have bigger issues than monkey-spanking.[/b] - Your significant other going to strip clubs/strip clubs in general - Accompanying your significant other to strip clubs [b]I've been to a club with him... he usually only goes when networking requires it, and ditto for me. I try to be a good sport, but I feel a little awkward being there in general. As for FI... he's a complete germaphobe... people have told me about how he's refused already paid for lapdances because he doesn't want skeevy hoochies touching him.[/b]
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    - Your significant other watching pornI don't care.- Your significant other "taking matters into his own hands"I don't care.- Your significant other going to strip clubs/strip clubs in generalPlease, go.  I don't care.- Accompanying your significant other to strip clubsI don't care.  He'd never invite me, but I'd go and have gone before.  Again, not caring.But, here's why I don't care: I have implicit trust in FI.  But, it's more than that.  I'm secure in my relationship and I know he loves me.  Further, I'm not in competition with any of those biatches.  There are ways that no matter how I try I will ever be able to be in the same league as them, but the same holds true for them.  They will never be in my league.P
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    - Your significant other watching porn: totally ok with this.- Your significant other "taking matters into his own hands": totally ok with this. - Your significant other going to strip clubs/strip clubs in general:By himself? Not ok! With friends for some fun: ok- Accompanying your significant other to strip clubs: Definitely OK! I think it would be fun!
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    - Your significant other watching porn Fine by me- Your significant other "taking matters into his own hands" Hottt- Your significant other going to strip clubs/strip clubs in general Fine by me, but he doesn't like them- Accompanying your significant other to strip clubs I enjoy strip clubs, I'd be happy to go with him
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    Your significant other watching porn- It's fine by me. We watch together sometimes, sometimes he watches alone. He's never chosen it over me, so not a problem- Your significant other "taking matters into his own hands" Yes please. Sometimes I want to be left the helll alone- Your significant other going to strip clubs/strip clubs in general- FREQUENTING them may become a problem, but occasionally, it's just male bonding time. a novelty- Accompanying your significant other to strip clubs- Actually FSIL and her husband are trying to get us to go with them soon...I did get kicked out of one once, but now that I know the rules...
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    im a little late, BUT,- Your significant other watching pornsure. hell, weve watched it together, and hes watched it in the same room as me without me even noticing for a few minutes... haha - Your significant other "taking matters into his own hands"i know he does this daily, and frankly it makes things easier on me because im not up for it 7 nights a week.- Your significant other going to strip clubs/strip clubs in generalim totally ok with this, but not ok with anyone touching him.- Accompanying your significant other to strip clubsweve been a few times. no biggie. i think im more into it than he is.
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    - Your significant other watching porn - I used to have major issues with it, but after blowing up over it Dh and I had a talk and now I feel better. It's a long story but mostly huge self confidence/self worth issues due to a past relationship.- Your significant other "taking matters into his own hands" - Everyone has to let off some steam ;)- Your significant other going to strip clubs/strip clubs in general - Thankfully he's not interested, because I honestly don't know how I would feel about him giving money to a strange naked chick when we're pretty broke at the moment.- Accompanying your significant other to strip clubs - I think I would rather go with than have him go alone. At least then I wouldn't have my imagination going rampant and my "predator" side would be able to be like "yeah, he's mine, back off chick".
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