too much?

freckled*bride

Expat, no, I'm not sure how she's paid for #1 and #3. #2 was mostly paid for by his family.

SarahPLiz

I am still confused as how the word presentation = bring money. If I saw that on an invitiation, I'd be totally confused. I'd agree that she is making a big presentation out of this whole thing, and truthfully, if I had attended her other weddings, I wouldnt be getting her a gift for this one. She should still have the toaster you bought her 2 years ago,right?

andyandhillary

I'm judging that girl up and down.  I am all kinds of judging right now.  AW.  Latex and pill doesn't work?  How about all of the other methods?  Yeah.   Ok.  Cry me a river. 

xoxob

That takes some chutzpah. Is it even OK to demand what people bring? I was invited to a wedding, and when I got the invitation from the bride's mom for the shower - she told me that it was a "two gift bridal shower" and I had to bring both a lingerie gift and a kitchen/domecile gift and that the minimum to spend on each was $50.00. I was taken aback by that. In this case, I am all for judgement!