save the dates and invites

mushygirl83

should I still send a save the date and intivte even if I know that the person will not be able to attend?

toothpastechica

short answer: if you would plan on inviting them if they could attend YES.

StephanieM22

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_save-the-dates-and-invites?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:150a58c6-1482-461c-a784-32652712e927Post:f89b3bef-5654-4cdf-8f9b-25965d8da418">Re: save the dates and invites</a>:
[QUOTE]short answer: if you would plan on inviting them if they could attend YES.
Posted by toothpastechica[/QUOTE]

<div>This plans change if they are able to attend they will and if not they know you wanted them there. </div>

ccarrion77

Yup, I have a few of those.  You don't want them to feel like you don't want them there...