Did you spend the night together?

SouthernPrairieGirl

I'm guessing we won't be spending the night together but I don't know what exactly we're going to do. However, I am going to buck tradition on not seeing each other before hand even though mysister-in-law/matron of honor says we shouldn't! haha 

pjen99

We will stay together.  I will get up earlier to go to the salon before the ceremony so we will each get to the venue on our own later in the day.  We will also be doing pictures before hand. 
Since we already live together and don't really have any family locally to stay with locally, it seems like the logical option.  I figure since we're already challenging tradition by doing "first look" pictures ahead of time, why not? 

shutterbuggy

Although friends think we should, we don't plan to.

shawna&ted

We live together, and have for the last 4 1/2 years, been together for 5. I will be staying at the hotel in the suite where we will be spending the wedding night. Doing this for a couple of reasons.

1. Tradition - he won't see me until I am completely ready. Haven't decided yet if that will be tradional "First Look' as I come down the aisle or a more modern twist of doing this as a private moment before the ceremony. Either way I want the moment to be special.

2. The hotel is 5 minutes from the ceremony site and home is about 30 minutes away. I have booked a suite for myself and the adjoining double room for my MOH, who is also my adult daughter. We will be staying there the night before with my three sons and FI's daughter, who are all under 18. My son's will leave in the morning to join the guys and all my maids will join me at the hotel to prepare for the day. FI could stay at the hotel with me but I want him to spend the night before with his brother who is coming in from out of town and will be staying at our house with him.

kimanddav

No, we are not going to spend the night together. We have a villa and 3 apts in the caribbean and he will stay with his BM in the apt. I'm not a supestitious person but I feel very strongly about this one LOL :-)

saraannevans

We won't be spending the night together. The next day is going to be long and I think it willl probably be better if we get a whole nights sleep!

eaglenightshade

We live together but i am sending him to the best mans house for a few reasons

1 all the girls are staying over and will have a full house

2 i don't want him seeing my dress before i walk into church

3 sorting the girls will be chaotic enough with out worrying about the boys too

cdharris21

We don't plan to. I am planning on sending him to a friend's house and I am going to have a few of my closest friends stay the night with me. We are going to have a quiet night in, just talking and reminiscing about the past. We have both decided that we aren't going to drink the night before our wedding. Also I think it will be good to have my friends with me because they can help me get ready and we can all be together as friends

rubymiene

Considering that we have lived together for years and we're getting married in the town we live in, it would be a stupid waste of money to get  hotel room.

LeLi6812

We are planning to stay together because of an early spiritual ceremony the same day as our evening wedding. However, once that is complete, we will separate to get ready and will see each other when it's time for photos (those will happen before the wedding ceremony). Can't wait!

Jayci010

We will not be spending the night before our wedding together.  I have 3 out of state Girlfriends coming in for the wedding that I haven't seen in about a year.  My Future Husband will be staying at his parents house and the girls and I are going to stay at our house.  That isn't the only reason though.  We are not a traditional couple, but I think that by not staying together that night we might miss each other.  There won't be that waking up stressed out in the morning and rushing around each other.  We wouldn't spend much time together that morning anyways.  The night before, my girls and I are going to boot him out and spend time together doing last minute things.

kjk2680

We are staying together.  We our having our wedding out of town and instead of moving our stuff around from room to room we are staying together in our hotel suite.  He, however will be kicked out come morning time.