so, can we talk about KPS?

wadingmoose

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[QUOTE]I'm curious as to why you'd judge a fat white girl MORE for dating a black guy then a skinny white girl?  I find that amusing and puzzling all at the same time. 
Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]


That is a KPS?  Weird.

FutureMrsTR

The only reason I haven't made one is that I don't want to make it at work OR at home so...conundrum.

temerityjane

Even the KPS that are being held up as boring or not really secrets make me feel like the most uninteresting person in the world. I have, literally, nothing.

laladypoet

you could say that you don't believe in drowning babies and you'd rank up there with the best of them.

temerityjane

Actually, I don't believe in babies.

Or Switzerland.

AmoroAgain

There you go! KPS! Go TJ!

laladypoet

I think brazilians are a conspiracy theory.

temerityjane

OH. My first boyfriend was a Brazlilian, and his name was FABIO.

Picture this on some kind of artistic background:

MY FIRST BOYFRIEND'S NAME WAS FABIO.

And then also pretend you don't see my name attached. This takes a lot of imagination, but that's my KPS.

Stackeye210

I wonder who would date a guy named Fabio.  That's so weird!?!?!!

georgia_bride09

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[QUOTE]The only reason I haven't made one is that I don't want to make it at work OR at home so...conundrum.
Posted by FutureMrsTR[/QUOTE]

Ditto this. I'm just too paranoid that it would somehow come back to bite me in the ass. 

arbolita

I really wonder what happened to that guy who sent in the secret saying he found his FI's secret about wanting to be dominated on their computer.  He sent it to me from his personal email account, so I emailed him back later that day asking for details about what happened, and he said he wasn't sure what he was going to do yet re: the wedding.

alixzafiris

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[QUOTE]I really wonder what happened to that guy who sent in the secret saying he found his FI's secret about wanting to be dominated on their computer.  He sent it to me from his personal email account, so I emailed him back later that day asking for details about what happened, and he said he wasn't sure what he was going to do yet re: the wedding.
Posted by arbolita[/QUOTE]

Dowhatnow? How on earth did I miss this?!

jasmineh7777

Sarah, I never would have guessed that was yoru secret! And, I'm right there with ya.

Stackeye210

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[QUOTE]I really wonder what happened to that guy who sent in the secret saying he found his FI's secret about wanting to be dominated on their computer.  He sent it to me from his personal email account, so I emailed him back later that day asking for details about what happened, and he said he wasn't sure what he was going to do yet re: the wedding.
Posted by arbolita[/QUOTE]

WHOA! 

ohwhynot

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[QUOTE]I really wonder what happened to that guy who sent in the secret saying he found his FI's secret about wanting to be dominated on their computer.  He sent it to me from his personal email account, so I emailed him back later that day asking for details about what happened, and he said he wasn't sure what he was going to do yet re: the wedding.
Posted by arbolita[/QUOTE]

Yikes, really? I mean, I know that if we send it from a personal computer you can see the email address and all, but I'd be seriously put off if you responded and asked for more details.   Maybe that's just me? 

laladypoet

was she the one who said her ex tells her what to do with her FI?

arbolita

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: so, can we talk about KPS? : Yikes, really? I mean, I know that if we send it from a personal computer you can see the email address and all, but I'd be seriously put off if you responded and asked for more details.   Maybe that's just me? 
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]


Well in the email with the secret, he wrote "Yes, the OP was my FI. Guess how I feel?"  so I took the intial contact to mean the door was open for a response.

ohwhynot

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: so, can we talk about KPS? : Well in the email with the secret, he wrote "Yes, the OP was my FI. Guess how I feel?"  so I took the intial contact to mean the door was open for a response.
Posted by arbolita[/QUOTE]

Oh yeah, I guess I'd read it that way, too.  Sorry. 

Was that the one where the OP said she didn't think her fi was dominant enough or something like that?  Seems like an easy enough fix to me. 

Edit:  unless it was the one lala referred to.  That one would be a deal-breaker, I'd think.  Yikes.

arbolita

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: so, can we talk about KPS? : Oh yeah, I guess I'd read it that way, too.  Sorry.  Was that the one where the OP said she didn't think her fi was dominant enough or something like that?  Seems like an easy enough fix to me. 
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]


It was a combination between that and what Lala said (about having her ex tell her what to do).

mags0607

Whoa, I missed those secrets. That sucks for the guy who found it.


I made one, and then became a chicken-shit and deleted it.

polichik

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[QUOTE]I posted one a while ago that was pretty lame: <strong><a href="http://theknotpostsecret.tumblr.com/post/590668881" rel="nofollow">http://theknotpostsecret.tumblr.com/post/590668881</a></strong> And the day it went up was the day that Nebb got all mad because we were talking about KPS too much, and I only argued with her because I was hoping somebody would mention mine.
Posted by sarah0725[/QUOTE]

Just read it, and.... We continue to have lots of things in common ;)

sarah0725

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: so, can we talk about KPS? : Just read it, and.... We continue to have lots of things in common ;)
Posted by polichik[/QUOTE]

Ha!

Some of you guys need to check out a little British movie from the 90s called Get Real... just sayin'. ;)

laladypoet

every time I see Interview with the Vampire, and it gets to that part where brad pitt's face is thisclose to antonio bandaras's face, I yell "KISS HIM!"

saschaduran

Ashton Kutcher and Sean William Scott in Dude Wheres My Car.  Yummy.

And I am one of those who would love to make a secret but if I admitted anything that I won't actually write on the knot, since I am already TMI, then I definitely would to want anyone to come across the secret in my computer.  So no secrets for me.  

sarah0725

You know how Netflix makes up categories for you to watch instantly? Well the category on the top of the list that they're recommending for me is "Steamy Romantic Gay and Lesbian Movies."

Meanwhile, FI is getting "Violent Revenge Dramas."

katiewhompus

I made a secret that talks about one of my fears, completely brought about by my insecurity. It even has my picture on it because I'm a loser like that.

jessjo04

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[QUOTE]I made a secret that talks about one of my fears, completely brought about by my insecurity. It even has my picture on it because I'm a loser like that.
Posted by katiewhompus[/QUOTE]

Is this you? Nice bod!

<a href="http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l4fn3lZfLf1qbfb8no1_400.jpg">http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l4fn3lZfLf1qbfb8no1_400.jpg</a> 

katiewhompus

Haha no Jessjo, I'm a bit squishier

kikibaby

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[QUOTE]You know how Netflix makes up categories for you to watch instantly? Well the category on the top of the list that they're recommending for me is "Steamy Romantic Gay and Lesbian Movies." Meanwhile, FI is getting "Violent Revenge Dramas."
Posted by sarah0725[/QUOTE]

Haha, mine is 'Dark Workplace TV'.  What does this say about me..?

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: so, can we talk about KPS? : Haha, mine is 'Dark Workplace TV'.  What does this say about me..?
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]

Uh, it says you watch too much of the Office? <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-tongue-out.gif" border="0" alt="Tongue out" title="Tongue out" />