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  • My usual judgement:  I judge the people who park in the fire lane.  The other day I went in the grocery just to return a red box, and the car was still there when I went back outside (to return to my legally parked car).  There were more open parking spaces ten feet away.  REALLY!?!  REALLY!?!  Obviously whatever you had to do wasn't as quick as you thought it was.

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    [QUOTE]I judge people who take the elevator any direction less than 3 floors when they are perfectly capable of stairs.
    Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]

    <div>Well, unless you know them personally, it's hard to look at someone and tell they are preferctly capable of taking the stairs.</div><div>
    </div><div>That said, I was on the elevator going up to my apartment.  It stopped on the 4th floor which is where our gym is located.  A woman got on who has obviously just finished working out.  She got off on the 5th floor.  REALL?  Couldn't have extended that worked out one more minute going up a flight of stairs?</div><div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : Do you have some magic ability that lets you KNOW they are perfectly capable of stairs?
    Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

    Nope I don't.  But I've seen people literally run to the elevator to catch it and say "thanks for holding it, I don't feel like taking the stairs" and then get off on the next floor up or down.
  • I judge a coworker who thinks Ed Hardy shirts with homemade off the shoulder inducing cuts (and allow her leopard print bra straps to show) is appropriate for work. 

    I judge most all of CC. 
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  • The stair thing has been done before yes? 
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    [QUOTE]Lizzie, I was JUST reading that. And I totally googled "giantess fantasy"
    Posted by pokepoke27[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>I'm afraid to google it. I'm still dealing with the mental fall out from when I googled Furry fantasy's.</div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : I think this is a bit of a stretch.  My H looks completely capable of taking the stairs but he has some major knee and ankle issues that we haven't been able to address.   He always takes the escalator or elevator over stairs to avoid further injury. 
    Posted by andrea2473[/QUOTE]

    Seriously. I always make it a personal point to take the stairs, just because it's one of those little things you can do to stay in shape -- but judging someone you don't know because of a perceived laziness is silly to me.
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    [QUOTE]The giantess post was definitely one of the strangest posts I've encountered on TK.  It makes me wonder what the hell is going on over at TN these days.
    Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>I'm afraid to look. Especially after the BJ while nursing thread.</div>
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  • I judge people who leave their dogs out in their yard for more than a couple of minutes if the dog is prone to barking.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : I'm afraid to look. Especially after the BJ while nursing thread.
    Posted by Lizzieyounce[/QUOTE]

    That thread traumatized me a little. 
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  • I judge people who don't return shopping carts to the corrals.  I was at Target the other day, parked two spaces from the corrall, and some lady on the other side of me (so 3 spots from the corral) left her cart in front of my car as I was getting out.  I said to her "the corral is like 20 feet away..."  She gave me a dirty look and then walked her cart over there.  But seriously?  You can't walk a few extra feet to put your cart away where it won't accidentally damage anyones car?
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : Agreed!  I have a few friends that do that on a regular basis.  And if they aren't doing that they are openly talking about other people in "code".  It's funny because I've been out of high school for a long time....or so I thought.  lol
    Posted by shannyb41[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Ha love this!  I can think of a soon-to-be family member who does this also in a very passive agressive manner... drives me crazy

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : I'm afraid to google it. I'm still dealing with the mental fall out from when I googled Furry fantasy's.
    Posted by Lizzieyounce[/QUOTE]

    <div>HA! </div><div>
    </div><div>I remember a conversation with H while we were dating. He jokingly asked if I enjoyed "water play". I was kind of like, well yeah, I guess. It could be fun to get sexy in the water. So not what that meant. </div>
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    [QUOTE]I judge people who don't return shopping carts to the corrals.  I was at Target the other day, parked two spaces from the corrall, and some lady on the other side of me (so 3 spots from the corral) left her cart in front of my car as I was getting out.  I said to her "the corral is like 20 feet away..."  She gave me a dirty look and then walked her cart over there.  But seriously?  You can't walk a few extra feet to put your cart away where it won't accidentally damage anyones car?
    Posted by jemmini6[/QUOTE]

    H is pretty laid back, but this makes him super ragey.  
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : Nope I don't. <strong> But I've seen people literally run to the elevator to catch it and say "thanks for holding it, I don't feel like taking the stairs"</strong> and then get off on the next floor up or down.
    Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]
    So, are you judging that they take the elevator in general or that they're making everyone wait for them to get to the elevator?<div>
    </div><div>I judge people who have been all over my newsfeed lately with "pity party AW" statuses. Also my aunt, who I can read everything she says to her "singles gang" group. Annoying as fluuck.</div><div><div>
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    [QUOTE]I judge people who take the elevator any direction less than 3 floors when they are perfectly capable of stairs.
    Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]
    I judge people who think this. How do you know the person riding to the 2nd floor doesn't have any injury you can't see? Or maybe their shoes are hurting them that day?
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    [QUOTE]I judge people who don't return shopping carts to the corrals.  I was at Target the other day, parked two spaces from the corrall, and some lady on the other side of me (so 3 spots from the corral) left her cart in front of my car as I was getting out.  I said to her "the corral is like 20 feet away..."  She gave me a dirty look and then walked her cart over there.  But seriously?  You can't walk a few extra feet to put your cart away where it won't accidentally damage anyones car?
    Posted by jemmini6[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>I am constantly amazed at the laziness some people display.

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  • I judge people who make life altering decisions based on negative emotions like jealousy or spite.  That was oddly specific... I'm going through family problems lol

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : I'm afraid to look. Especially after the BJ while nursing thread.
    Posted by Lizzieyounce[/QUOTE]

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : I judge people who think this. How do you know the person riding to the 2nd floor doesn't have any injury you can't see? Or maybe their shoes are hurting them that day?
    Posted by daffodil_jill[/QUOTE]

    Or maybe they just don't feel like taking the fuucking stairs.
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  • I thought so.  As someone who tends to fall both up and down stairs, bite me if you judge me for taking the elevator. 
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : HA!  I remember a conversation with H while we were dating. He jokingly asked if I enjoyed "water play". I was kind of like, well yeah, I guess. It could be fun to get sexy in the water. So not what that meant. 
    Posted by pokepoke27[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Lol! </div><div>
    </div><div>I had to google "crime scene". I thought I was more worldly, but I guess I'm not. Not that that's a bad thing. There are just some things I probably don't really want to know about.

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  • The cart corral thing makes my blood boil but I also used to gather carts from the parking lot for my job. My favorites were the people who would exert their energy to put the cart in the elevated mulch/flower thing but couldn't walk the other direction to put it in the corral.
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    [QUOTE]I thought so.  As someone who tends to fall both up and down stairs, bite me if you judge me for taking the elevator. 
    Posted by Girlie1030[/QUOTE]
    This. 100%. 
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  • Oh whatever.  I totally judge a guy in my work building for his elevator use.  He's a very active, athletic man in his 40s that I've run into at the gym on several occasions.  He uses the elevator constantly to go up or down one flight of stairs (my building is basically three floors, and he works on the second, and comes to third a lot for some projects).  Maybe it wouldn't bother me as much if our elevator wasn't the slowest moving piece of equipment on the entire fucking planet.  The man could definitely get to where he's going much faster if he took the stairs - and I'm bewildered by his elevator use because he always seems like he's in a hurry to go somewhere.  Hey, guy.  If you're late?  Don't wait for that damn elevator.  I'm not shitting you, I could lap that elevator probably twice going from the ground to the top.  And this guy takes the elevator.

    Lots of people in my building take the elevator for one flight of stairs (and they are small flights) but I don't judge them all.  Many people in my building are older and like PPs have mentioned, have joint issues or etc.  But whatever.  I judge the one guy and I judge him because he's lazy and I dgaf.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : I judge people who think this. How do you know the person riding to the 2nd floor doesn't have any injury you can't see? Or maybe their shoes are hurting them that day?
    Posted by daffodil_jill[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>I second this. </div><div>
    </div><div>An apartment I lived in during college had elevators, but the only stairs for the entire building exited outdoors, by the dumpsters and were exit only. They locked automatically behind you. I lived on the second floor and took the stairs as often as possible, but obviously had to take the elevator up every time. (I judge whoever designed that building). People literally screamed at me for doing that, or would at least glare at me. Every single day. That pissed me off enough to not care if people take the elevator for any reason - even if they are just lazy. Who cares why they take elevator?</div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : Lol!  I had to google "crime scene".<strong> I thought I was more worldly, but I guess I'm not.</strong> Not that that's a bad thing. There are just some things I probably don't really want to know about.
    Posted by Lizzieyounce[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>I'm also far more innocent than I thought I was. lol

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  • chelseamb11chelseamb11 member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : So, are you judging that they take the elevator in general or that they're making everyone wait for them to get to the elevator? I judge people who have been all over my newsfeed lately with "pity party AW" statuses. Also my aunt, who I can read everything she says to her "singles gang" group. Annoying as fluuck.
    Posted by crash2729[/QUOTE]

    More of a making people wait for them to take the elevator one flight or two I guess too.  I know there's no way to know who can take stairs or not unless they make it really obvious, so I rarely have any specific judgements, but it's just an irrational irratation/judgement of mine when people are too lazy to walk a flight of stairs thati s literally 10 feet away from the elevator.

    ETA if they have a legit reason, then yeah no judgement here.
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