A friend of mine just informed me yesterday that she didn't realize my wedding was on a Friday, though I had asked her to read and told her the wedding was on a Friday in September, and sent out STDs in October (little annoyed).
Anyway, she can't make it to the wedding at all. I know it's an enormous faux pas to replace a member of the wedding party, which I would NEVER do, but is it equally as wrong to replace a reader? No one (other than the readers) knows who is reading and what they're reading.
I would never want anyone to feel like they're the second choice and I would be fine with just omitting the reading altogether. I do know, however, that this friend I would like to ask would be super happy to do the reading.
In advance, I appreciate your advice. You girls are great. Thanks!
You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.- Dr. Seuss
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