Best/Worst KPS

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Best/Worst KPS : The way I read that one is the girl is selfish and only cares about how her mans issues with his self esteem will affect their own relationship.  I hear a lot of me, me, me and no "I'm worried and want him to get help so that he can be happy"
Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]
I thought that at first too, but then I wondered if he's addicted to something and it's hurting her and she's just sucky at expressing it.

laladypoet

also, why is everyone grossed out by squirting? I don't get it. it's not offensive. it's something some people do when they orgasm.

Birdie1483

Stupid question, what is a "beebee"?

laladypoet

a squirter

Birdie1483

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[QUOTE]<a href="http://theknotpostsecret.tumblr.com/post/819366423" rel="nofollow">http://theknotpostsecret.tumblr.com/post/819366423</a> I kind of relate to that one.  Not to the extreme that I feel guilty for living with FI, but I know I'll feel guilty as long as I live more than a day-trip-drive's-worth away from her.
Posted by FutureMrsTR[/QUOTE]


I also relate and agree with you on this. My father passed away when I was 12 and my mom never remarried. I had a lot of guilt when I moved out of town to live with FI. Sometimes I feel like I've abandoned her. Luckily she's only a few hours away and I go back a lot, so the guilt has subsided a little.

nda_roxybabe

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[QUOTE]Stupid question, what is a "beebee"?
Posted by Birdie1483[/QUOTE]

I typically find it to mean either a new person or someone whiny (like a baby) and for the record, I did not post that one. I wouldnt post a KPS about wanting to be engaged, I figure its a given.

kikibaby

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[QUOTE]also, why is everyone grossed out by squirting? I don't get it. it's not offensive. it's something some people do when they orgasm.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

I'm not <em>offended</em> by it, I just don't want to think about it.  Especially with a big graphic of a freakin' gyser.  And well, yeah, it's a little gross to me.

temerityjane

In defense of my finding lady squirting gross, I would also like to say that I find male squirting pretty gross as well. I'm equally opportunity when it comes to sexual grossness.

laladypoet

I guess I just don't see why it's gross. it's no a waste fluid or anything.

[Deleted User]

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[QUOTE]Stupid question, what is a "beebee"?
Posted by Birdie1483[/QUOTE]
it stands for "baby bride" (b.b.). i detest that word.

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]In defense of my finding lady squirting gross, I would also like to say that I find male squirting pretty gross as well. I'm equally opportunity when it comes to sexual grossness.
Posted by temerityjane[/QUOTE]

so, wait. you find semen gross?

shoegal715

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Best/Worst KPS : I also relate and agree with you on this. My father passed away when I was 12 and my mom never remarried. I had a lot of guilt when I moved out of town to live with FI. Sometimes I feel like I've abandoned her. Luckily she's only a few hours away and I go back a lot, so the guilt has subsided a little.
Posted by Birdie1483[/QUOTE]

<div>Me too. This KPS really hit home for me. I was really upset when I first moved out. So much so that I remember my mom calling one random afternoon and asked me how things were going, and I just burst into tears. It took me a solid month to get over the guilt. But now, I realize that more than anything, our moms want us to be independent, happy, and self-sufficent. I make a point to call my mom once a day, and see her every chance I can, and that makes me feel a lot better about her spending so much time alone.</div>

Birdie1483

When I hear about the squirter, I can't help but think of an awful video an ex-boyfriend showed me once of a girl popping a nerf ball out of her hoo ha and the proceeding squirt that happened. It was disgusting.

temerityjane

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Best/Worst KPS : so, wait. you find semen gross?
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I totally do. I'm not ashamed of that, either. It's sticky and it smells bad and I'm certainly not spreading it on my toast in the morning. Just because it's "natural" doesn't mean it's pleasant.

I pretty much want limited contact with anything that comes out of the genital area. Even babies are pretty gross when they first slide out.

kikibaby

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Best/Worst KPS : Yeah, I totally do. I'm not ashamed of that, either. It's sticky and it smells bad and I'm certainly not spreading it on my toast in the morning. Just because it's "natural" doesn't mean it's pleasant. I pretty much want limited contact with anything that comes out of the genital area. Even babies are pretty gross when they first slide out.
Posted by temerityjane[/QUOTE]

If we had that little *thumbs up* icon from the Nest, I would totally use it here.  But, we don't, so I'll just type 2 sentences about it.

georgia_bride09

Ditto TJ. Just like my H doesn't want to see my tampons, I don't need to see his jiz. And vice versa.

GreenPepperBurger

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Best/Worst KPS : Yeah, I totally do. I'm not ashamed of that, either. It's sticky and it smells bad and<strong> I'm certainly not spreading it on my toast in the morning</strong>. Just because it's "natural" doesn't mean it's pleasant. I pretty much want limited contact with anything that comes out of the genital area. Even babies are pretty gross when they first slide out.
Posted by temerityjane[/QUOTE]

I just got a very unpleasant visual.

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Best/Worst KPS : Yeah, I totally do. I'm not ashamed of that, either. It's sticky and it smells bad and I'm certainly not spreading it on my toast in the morning. Just because it's "natural" doesn't mean it's pleasant. I pretty much want limited contact with anything that comes out of the genital area. Even babies are pretty gross when they first slide out.
Posted by temerityjane[/QUOTE]
it's not like i'd use it as a condiment or take a bath in it or anything, but I don't find it disgusting.
and I don't find it disgusting when girls orgasm either.
finding it disgusting is kinda weird to me.

laladypoet

honestly, I'm surprised by some of the prudishness in this thread.
::shrug::

laladypoet

and no, it's not my KPS, before someone comes out with a "whoever smelt it, dealt it" response.

wadingmoose

Someone has her judgey pants on today. 

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]Someone has her judgey pants on today. 
Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]

me? or the people who judge that KPS? or everyone on the knot?

arbolita

I just posted one, and I would be so pissed off if I was that girl.  I know that it doesn't do a lot of help to blame her FI, because it's stuff that happened in his past and not as though he cheated on her and got it, but still.    At least HPV does kind of go away once you build immunity to it.

wadingmoose

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Best/Worst KPS : me? or the people who judge that KPS? or everyone on the knot?
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

I was thinking you, but you're right.  I think we can safely go with all the knot.

kikibaby

I know people who think tomatoes are disgusting, or hair in a brush, but I don't say "You're a prude/weird/crazy because you are disgusted by these normal things."  People are grossed out by different things- who cares?

wadingmoose

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[QUOTE]I know people who think tomatoes are disgusting, or hair in a brush, but I don't say "You're a prude/weird/crazy because you are disgusted by these normal things."  People are grossed out by different things- who cares?
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]


They are correct.

Tomatoes ARE disgusting.  Ew.  Unless they're cooked into sauce, in a salsa or in a bottle marked heinz, of course.

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]I know people who think tomatoes are disgusting, or hair in a brush, but I don't say "You're a prude/weird/crazy because you are disgusted by these normal things."  People are grossed out by different things- who cares?
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]
by that same token, I'm NOT grossed out and am just saying so.
who cares?

tidetravel

IMO, the worst part of the squirting KPS is that I immediately starting thinking about who it might be.  That was disturbing.

temerityjane

I think blood is gross, too, and if someone's spleen fell out and landed on my foot, I would probably die of gross. Put me down in the "prude" column for anything that comes from inside a person.

wadingmoose

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[QUOTE]I think blood is gross, too, and if someone's spleen fell out and landed on my foot, I would probably die of gross. Put me down in the "prude" column for anything that comes from inside a person.
Posted by temerityjane[/QUOTE]


Oddly, picturing this makes me laugh.