Hi everyone, I'm a spineless bride in need of some help. My wedding is not until July 2013, I've done absolutely nothing as far as planning, and I plan to keep it that way for the next few months. FI are really just enjoying being engaged, and on top of that, we have a million other things that we've deemed more important (not more important than our marriage, just the actual celebration). Sounds pretty peachy, no? Well, not according to a friend of mine! Since the day FI proposed, she has been jumping down my throat about plans. I've explained in every way I can think of that planning is simply a non-issue at this point (especially for her!), and we may even choose to elope. She has not listened to me, constantly badgering me about who I will choose for the wedding party already, what flowers I want, what dresses they will wear, etc. I don't have an answer, and at this point, I frankly don't care. After 2 months of me dodging her questions, and eventually avoiding contact with her, she sends out an email to a few of my close friends claiming she is the MOH and she needs to enlist some BMs. She is calling and making appointments for me, giving out my number and email address. Since I will no longer take her calls, she has been stopping by my house to annoy me about the guest list (oh but no worries, she really just needs me to go over the one she has already put together!) I'm about to flush myself down the toilet. Can anyone offer a different suggestion?