Hello! I'm getting ready to send out my STD's, and we are inviting all adult guests with a "plus 1". I want to note this on the STD's, because my wedding is in a different state over Memorial Day weekend, so I want people to be able to plan for it. My question is, for an invited guest who has a boyfriend/girlfriend but they do not live together, do I address the STD "Jane Jones and Guest" or "Jane Jones and John Smith", even though John doesn't live with Jane? Thanks!