I have a two part question: is being told to STD but then not giving that person an invitation just as bad as sending them an STD? It happened to a friend of mine and she's really offended. I would be too.
Second question is if it's a no no to tell someone to STD for your GNO but then never invite them? A part of me is hurt that I was invited to the shower part but not the GNO when I was told to STD for both.
...I am a little bit glad I don't have to put on makeup or my ho shoes tonight. :-)