Uninvited!!!

NuggetBrain

DUDE.  I am vindictive so I am all about either poop in a box, or an anonymous etiquette book.  Because this chick is a straight-up moron.

Gismo123

Can we say gift grabby?  Sounds like they can only afford a small wedding but want to invite more people than they can afford so they can get more gifts and to save money anyone who wasn't important enough doesn't get to eat......so selfish!

marissa_claire

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_uninvited-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:37afe4ac-a9e2-4c68-baa0-ab79e2d0adb0Post:54080e85-c5c4-43ca-a3a1-56ae5b400956">Re: Uninvited!!!</a>:
[QUOTE]What about a gift haiku? that would be totally badass. 
Posted by Rosie109[/QUOTE]

<div>Ditto.  Write her a poem as your gift to her.  Or paint a terrible piece of art and tell her it would look great in the living room, where everyone can see it.  Homemade may be the way to go here.</div>

Galaxy8227

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_uninvited-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:37afe4ac-a9e2-4c68-baa0-ab79e2d0adb0Post:5ec6ea1c-2525-4c60-9053-2df7cf37ff1c">Re: Uninvited!!!</a>:
[QUOTE]I'm so glad I'm not the only one who thinks this is classless and tacky!! I thought I was being snobbish or rude for being hurt by this! <strong>I guess what set me off is the fact that they asked for cash AND a gift because 'the items on the registry are only small trinkets.' WTF?</strong> Cash AND a gift??! I am not a stingy person-I love to give, it make sme feel good. This just seems super excessive!
Posted by amcmahon4020[/QUOTE]

Who does that?

jessienjeremy

Oh wow.......

I agree give her a box and a bow.  She asked for it

Moneypenny424

Class cannot be bought
Your tackiness astounds me
Enjoy my boxed poo.

Haiku done .

sarah0725

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_uninvited-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:37afe4ac-a9e2-4c68-baa0-ab79e2d0adb0Post:bcb46357-e84d-49bd-a13f-7f75008fb05d">Re: Uninvited!!!</a>:
[QUOTE]Class cannot be bought Your tackiness astounds me Enjoy my boxed poo. Haiku done :).
Posted by Moneypenny424[/QUOTE]

That is genius. Can we get married?

Cynthia1207

I can't believe people like that actually exist in the world.

Moneypenny424

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_uninvited-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:37afe4ac-a9e2-4c68-baa0-ab79e2d0adb0Post:e370a419-cc44-45f9-a4d6-7991d63ffa2c">Re: Uninvited!!!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Uninvited!!! : That is genius. Can we get married?
Posted by sarah0725[/QUOTE]

Anytime, Sarah :)

Beachy730

I would definitely be mailing that etiquette book anonymously. 

I'm with mery, I would probably call and say something like "oh i loved your invitations!  So what kind of food is being served at your wedding?"  Just because I'm a bitch like that.

golden1215

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_uninvited-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:37afe4ac-a9e2-4c68-baa0-ab79e2d0adb0Post:82c7d5ab-a3c9-4cd2-9e8e-a7d326c44bb7">Re: Uninvited!!!</a>:
[QUOTE]Yes! They included this little poem about how white envelopes should accompany items from the registry!! For your enjoyment: "On our wedding day, we don't ask for much. We'd love to say all we need is luck. Our wants and needs  are small trinkets at Sears. But the gift that succeeds will bring is to tears. A little box with a bow, wrapped just for us, and a white envelope attached with love."
Posted by amcmahon4020[/QUOTE]

SHUT THE FVCK UP!!!  I'm not usually the judgy type but this- combined w/ a dinner snub- would make me question my friendship with said person.

Bubbalub

Wow. I am actually shocked by the tackiness of this all. I think the box of poo plus a decline to the invitation is appropriate. Holy shiit.