bowing out gracefully...long

Peledreamsofrain

Honestly though, in all reality, the MOH and bride will probably go the passive aggressive route themselves and not kick her out.  Life just kind of works that way, or at least it does for me.  Whatever is the scenario that is the most inconvenient is usually how things go.

Instead they're likely to sneer at her the whole time and make her feel like an unwelcome shmuck.  Maybe spread some nasty things around the group about "that horrible girl who refuses to pay for anything.  That's why you have to pay 600$ instead of 300$".  Then they'll also be able to justify 'unfriending' her after the wedding.  Pointing out all the times she didn't help, and how aweful she is.  Ugh, makes me mad just thinking about it.

Honestly, just cut losses and go.  Drama is gross.