I need a little advice. I would like my wedding to be mainly an adult event. There are numerous people who will be coming to the wedding who have small children. I want everyone to have fun and enjoy a night out without kids (plus we do have a tight budget). However, I have some older cousins (youngest is 14) that I am really close to and I couldn’t imagine getting married without them there. How do you say “only well behaved children 14 years or older.” Is that appropriate? Do you put it on the invitation? The response card? Any advice is appreciated