New job and co-workers

schlcnslr

Hi ladies!!!
I started a new job about a month ago, it will be a month and a half by the time of my wedding.  Is it rude if I don't invite my new co-workers? Or will it be rude if I do invite them? Not sure what to do. They all know about the wedding and ask me questions about it daily.

TIA!!!!!

Stackeye210

I wouldn't invite them, but that's just me.  I would think they'd understand if they weren't invited but are probably asking daily because it's a way to get to know the new girl. 

FutureMrsTR

I wouldn't invite them.  Your invites probably went out around the time you started, right?  I doubt they're expecting you to invite them.

ehathewa

I just started a new job (2 months before the big day) and am not inviting my new co-workers. 

I wouldn't expect to get invited to a wedding of someone I met a month or two before their wedding. 

leah2b

Nah, its not rude either way and they will totally understand.  Do what you feel like. 

frenchy730

I don't think they would expect to be invited.  You've only known them for a month, and most people understand that weddings are for close friends and family.. or generally people you have known longer than a month.

They are probably just asking you questions to try to get to know you, not fishing for invites.  Don't worry about it.

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I don't think I would just because you really don't know them yet. I am sure they will understand. And you don't want to appear gift grabby.