So my father generously offered to pay for our wedding, as he feels it is his responsibility. Unfortunately, he and my stepmother freaked the f out when we told them we would like to wait until June 2013. He's not even flinching when I told him that IF I could get the places I want, then I would need a few K in deposit money MONDAY, and that we would not be able to contribute nearly as much. He just said "fine."
Part of me isn't worrying much, because there are exactly TWO dates that would work for me in June 2012, and I'm pretty sure they're not going to be available. The other part is worrying about how to just tell him NO, we don't want your money because we don't want your input.
Anyone?