What to do when your MOH and BM are getting DIVORCED?

babyloveswinky08

What do we do? she is one of my best friends and he is one of my FI best friends.. we are stuck in the middle... I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO NOW!!! They have been fighting so bad that I AM PULLING MY HAIR OUT! I do not want any kind of drama at my wedding!!! HELP ME PLEASE!

whitneykaye87

I agree with Amoro.

If you're really that worried, just talk to your friends separately, thank them for standing up next to you during such a crappy time in their lives, and try to make sure they understand how important it is to at least be civil.  It stinks you're in the middle of it.  Good luck!

september's bride

You may just have to wait and see how it plays out. They're going to have to wear a lot of hats in the coming months as life goes on and they adapt without a partner. Sometimes one person deals better with it than the other, and you may find that one decides to stay in your wedding, and one may bow out. They both may stay, they both may leave, but you'll have to try support your friends in their decision.

For now, maybe just refocus your attention on supporting your friend while she deals with this, and worry about her role in your wedding later. Think of how happy you are to be getting married, and flip that 180 degrees - that's how miserable she probably is that her marriage is collapsing.