I'm on the fence with this one.
FIs step-mom's mom passed away yesterday and the funeral and visitation are thurs and friday.
I go to school 4 hours away, and am leaving for Europe on Monday.
I don't have classes thurs and friday, and I have a car so I CAN get back, but ugh it's such a long drive and I cant' really afford the $100 it would cost me in gas.
FI isn't going to the funeral - he can't take the time off work. He is going to the visitation. FI said he doesn't care what I do, I can stay if I want he doesn't think his dad would care.
I've never met the woman who died, but I am close with her daughter, FIs step-mom.
What would you do? Suck it up and drive back, or is it ok to just send a card with fiance?
Re: NWR: Should I go home?
I think because you've never met the deceased, you are out of town, and because of school and the fact that you are about to leave on a long trip, I'd beg off.
But I'd also call FFIL and FSIL to express my sympathies, and send a card or flowers.
[QUOTE]I think because you've never met the deceased, you are out of town, and because of school and the fact that you are about to leave on a long trip, I'd beg off. But I'd also call FFIL and FSIL to express my sympathies, and send a card or flowers.
Posted by Catwoman708[/QUOTE]
Agreed.
It sounds like you have some unusual circumstances, so I think sending a card and some flowers would be appropriate in this situation.