More TK/TN/TB Privacy Invasion

Beachy730

http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/64952807.aspx

I don't think it works on here yet, but anyone who posts on TN/TB is affected by it.  Basically anyone can click on your profile and then FB Like, Twitter Like, and Google Plus like your profile, thus showing your real name.  

I'm posting it here too because a lot of you are on TN/TB too and SOMETIMES they will actually pay attention to the masses when they are pissed.  

If this shiit isn't fixed then I'm really done with the sites.  I'm so sick of the fact that they can't respect anyone's privacy or the fact that 90% of the posters here don't want their TK/TN/TB life linked to their real life in any way shape or form.

Mrs.B6302007

WHo do they think they are?  I have to be extremely careful with FB because of my profession and *I* have EVERY RIGHT to control what happens on my page.

Knot/Bump/Nest you better get your SH*T together.

*I've posted on TB this week so I'm sure my info is out there.

lyndausvi

Umm yeah.  I'm not cool with this.

aleighk1

Yeah that better not come over here.

lyndausvi

Okay. beach's profile is private.  I could not see the like buttons.   Aleigh, yours was not and I could see the like buttons.

Mrs.B6302007

I'm pretty sure my profile is private.

lyndausvi

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_more-tktntb-privacy-invasion?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:5dba1677-1ff2-4441-b92b-8d36f4fa199dPost:112fd8af-ac46-41e0-a47e-9b3ba5adb250">Re: More TK/TN/TB Privacy Invasion</a>:
[QUOTE]I'm pretty sure my profile is private.
Posted by Mrs.B6302007[/QUOTE]

It was also.

Thanks to this thread mine is also.

Mrs.B6302007

BUT, a member shouldn't HAVE to set her profile to private in order to protect her FB account.  IT SHOULDN'T BE HAPPENING AT ALL!  DO YOU HEAR ME, KNOT GODS?

mica178

I'm not supposed to have my profile set to private.  I guess that settles my decision to avoid posting on TN/TB.

This topic came up recently, and I could have sworn that the higher ups decided not to go this route.  I guess they changed their minds again. 

Beachy730

You have to to click on a TN/TB profile.  I logged out and clicked on my profile through TN and could see the buttons.  I just don't think it's hit TK yet.  

lyndausvi

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_more-tktntb-privacy-invasion?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:5dba1677-1ff2-4441-b92b-8d36f4fa199dPost:926a2028-0a47-4a1c-8654-64afdbe344d9">Re: More TK/TN/TB Privacy Invasion</a>:
[QUOTE]BUT, a member shouldn't HAVE to set her profile to private in order to protect her FB account.  IT SHOULDN'T BE HAPPENING AT ALL!  DO YOU HEAR ME, KNOT GODS?
Posted by Mrs.B6302007[/QUOTE]

Ditto.

aleighk1

I have this new timeline shiit and I don't know how to make my profile private :[

lyndausvi

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_more-tktntb-privacy-invasion?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:5dba1677-1ff2-4441-b92b-8d36f4fa199dPost:20d54c7c-8e77-446e-919a-ce049b0a1742">Re: More TK/TN/TB Privacy Invasion</a>:
[QUOTE]You have to to click on a TN/TB profile.  I logged out and clicked on my profile through TN and could see the buttons.  I just don't think it's hit TK yet.  
Posted by dnbeach12[/QUOTE]

I was able to see the buttons on here looking at someone's profile.

Mrs.B6302007

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_more-tktntb-privacy-invasion?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:5dba1677-1ff2-4441-b92b-8d36f4fa199dPost:e86d6759-8f53-40fe-ac2a-56256e895103">Re: More TK/TN/TB Privacy Invasion</a>:
[QUOTE]I<strong>'m not supposed to have my profile set to private.</strong>  I guess that settles my decision to avoid posting on TN/TB. This topic came up recently, and I could have sworn that the higher ups decided not to go this route.  I guess they changed their minds again.  :(
Posted by mica178[/QUOTE]


Well that's not fair.  Just because you help them out doesn't mean you shouldn't get to keep your private info, you know, PRIVATE.  You are not their employee so they should have ZERO control over stuff like this.

aleighk1

OH You mean your TK profile is private. Okay I can do that.

Beachy730

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_more-tktntb-privacy-invasion?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:5dba1677-1ff2-4441-b92b-8d36f4fa199dPost:bf02e6e2-a4a7-4c7e-91cb-f49dd85a9ec4">Re: More TK/TN/TB Privacy Invasion</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: More TK/TN/TB Privacy Invasion : I was able to see the buttons on here looking at someone's profile.
Posted by lyndausvi[/QUOTE]

<div>Oh really?  I'm gonna PM you a link in second.  Will you click on my name through there and see if it shows up please?</div>

Beachy730

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_more-tktntb-privacy-invasion?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:5dba1677-1ff2-4441-b92b-8d36f4fa199dPost:926a2028-0a47-4a1c-8654-64afdbe344d9">Re: More TK/TN/TB Privacy Invasion</a>:
[QUOTE]BUT, a member shouldn't HAVE to set her profile to private in order to protect her FB account.  IT SHOULDN'T BE HAPPENING AT ALL!  DO YOU HEAR ME, KNOT GODS?
Posted by Mrs.B6302007[/QUOTE]

<div>I agree.  DIdn't they get the fucking hint after the uproar a few weeks ago about linking to FB?  It's such bullshit, and seriously just proves to me even more that they are trying to drive off all the regs so they can push it to be a puppies and rainbows place to make more money.</div>

aleighk1

Okay, I can only see Mica's I can't see anyone else's who is private.

lyndausvi

beach you have a PM'



It seems that on here only publics you can see the buttons.  that is not the case on the TN/TB.

mica178

I'm staying off TN/TB.  And eff it, I'm making my profile private.  People can see my bio if they want to see "more."  If they want to fire me, I'll happily step down from my volunteer position.

Beachy730

Thanks Lynda, I appreciate it.  

Yeah, so basically there is no way to avoid it on TN?TB right now because I have the same privacy settings over there and apparently it doesn't matter.  It's such bullshit.  I'm sure it's only a matter of time before they attempt to bring it here too.

Mrs.B6302007

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_more-tktntb-privacy-invasion?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:5dba1677-1ff2-4441-b92b-8d36f4fa199dPost:f99647e2-19b9-4852-8984-63926d7d15b1">Re: More TK/TN/TB Privacy Invasion</a>:
[QUOTE]I'm staying off TN/TB.  And eff it, I'm making my profile private.  People can see my bio if they want to see "more."  If they want to fire me, I'll happily step down from my volunteer position.
Posted by mica178[/QUOTE]


:high five:

Or as BB says it, "high sives!"

lyndausvi

I have the same privacy settings on both, so I guess there is no way to avoid it except for avoiding TN/TB

Beachy730

Good for you Mica.  That's absolute bullshit if they fire you for wanting to keep your personal and fucking professional life private.

Mrs.B6302007

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_more-tktntb-privacy-invasion?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:5dba1677-1ff2-4441-b92b-8d36f4fa199dPost:ca4b244b-48f7-4d9d-8fd3-bcc9e499af5e">Re: More TK/TN/TB Privacy Invasion</a>:
[QUOTE]beach you have a PM' It seems that on here only publics you can see the buttons.  <strong>that is not the case on the TN/TB.</strong>
Posted by lyndausvi[/QUOTE]


And that is BS.  NO ONE should be required to have thier personal FB page viewable at any time in order to post on a freaking message board.

Mrs.B6302007

THere is a very strongly worded letter to the freak-a-zoids who run these boards starting to form in my coffee-driven brain.

lyndausvi

I do want to do a little test though.    When you hit "like" what does it do?  Not that I want anyone to be able to 'like' me, but I'm curious to see how much access they have on my page. 

My page is mostly friends only with a few things that are friends of friends.  I might have to lock down my FB even more.

Mrs.B6302007

From teh privacy policy

We are a member of the Facebook Beacon Program. If you are a member of Facebook, and are logged in to Facebook during the same time as you are logged into TheKnot.com, we may share information regarding your activities on our site with Facebook pursuant to your authorization. If you agree to give Facebook access to this information, Facebook may publish it on your Facebook profile, send it to your “friends” in a News Feed, and use it to improve its site or services or for other purposes. We do not control Facebook’s privacy policy, and its privacy policy will govern its use of your information once it has been shared by us. We assume no liability for Facebook’s actions with respect to its use of your information or otherwise. Accordingly, we suggest that you if you plan to authorize the transfer of your personal information retrieved on TheKnot.com to Facebook, you first review Facebook’s privacy policy, available at http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/policy.php.

Read more: Privacy Policy - Your Privacy RightsTheKnot.com - http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center/the-knot-about-us/articles/the-knot-privacy-policy.aspx#ixzz1rSJvF7oB

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SOunds like if you aren't logged into FB and TK simultaneously there's no crossover?  IDK though

Mrs.B6302007

Legal Disclaimer

Though we make every effort to preserve your privacy we may need to disclose personal information when required by law wherein we have a good-faith belief that such action is necessary to comply with a current judicial proceeding, a court order or legal process served on our Web site.

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Really?  Could have fooled me.

HockeyFan4

Ok I think I have gone private....


from TK's privacy policy:
We are a member of the Facebook Beacon Program. If you are a member of Facebook, and are logged in to Facebook during the same time as you are logged into TheKnot.com, we may share information regarding your activities on our site with Facebook pursuant to your authorization. If you agree to give Facebook access to this information, Facebook may publish it on your Facebook profile, send it to your “friends” in a News Feed, and use it to improve its site or services or for other purposes. We do not control Facebook’s privacy policy, and its privacy policy will govern its use of your information once it has been shared by us. We assume no liability for Facebook’s actions with respect to its use of your information or otherwise. Accordingly, we suggest that you if you plan to authorize the transfer of your personal information retrieved on TheKnot.com to Facebook, you first review Facebook’s privacy policy, available at http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/policy.php.

Read more: Privacy Policy - Your Privacy RightsTheKnot.com - http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center/the-knot-about-us/articles/the-knot-privacy-policy.aspx#ixzz1rSJQhcg9

Beachy730

So now I have to constantly log on and off FB to protect my privacy?  How the eff do they think it's ok to just share our info with Facebook?  And how do you "agree to give Facebook access?"  Or really how do you decline it?  Last time I checked Mark Zuckerberg didn't put his personal cell number on his profile to call.