Ok, I know I will get a lot of heat for this, but I don't know how to figure out moving forward with this issue. So give it to me straight!
My FI and I had a falling out with another couple about a year ago. My FI and I have reached out to this couple a million times to try and reconnect, but the girl in that relationship insists she hates me and wants nothing to do with me. My FI and the guy are still friends but rarely talk, as this guys girlfriend wants him to stay clear of us.
Overall, the guys have tried to make things work, and so my FI asked if we could be the bigger people and send a wedding invitation to them. He said he knew they would RSVP No, but wanted to, so that in the future we could maybe work things out. I said yes, knowing they would also RSVP No, considering I had emailed her a bunch saying sweet things about trying to get together and work things out, and she would not respond to them, but to say "I will let you know if I ever feel the need to work things out, but at this time, I don't"
Now we get the RSVP back, and they said YES. I told my FI I am excited that they want to move forward, so I sent her an email, letting her now I was happy to see the RSVP back as a Yes. She wont respond, and it appears she will not talk to me even still.
I asked my FI why she is coming if she wont talk to me, and that might make me feel uncomfertable on our big day. I clearly have to still have her come, but don't know what to do at this point, as it will make me feel sad if someone at our wedding wont even give me the time of day.
Any tips on what to do. I figure I should stop contacting her, but what do I do about my big day, let it go? I feel I will be disrespected by her cold actions, and I personally feel that isn't fair to do to a bride on her wedding day.
Thoughts???