My question is about the etiquette around inviting people who host bridal showers to the wedding... Some background for you all:I grew up in a very small town (1000 people) and my mom still lives there. I will be getting married in the large city I live in now (Minneapolis), which is 2 hours away from my hometown. Because my fiance and I are paying for the wedding ourselves, we are keeping the guest list as small as possible. Also, we are older than most people who get married from my hometown (I am 33, he is 35, whereas most people in my hometown get married between 21-25), so the majority of our guests will be our family, friends and colleagues as opposed to our parents' friends. Two of my mom's friends, who are not on our guest list, have asked about hosting a bridal shower for us. Because the town is so small, there will very likely be more people who will join in the shower hosting.My Question: Do I have to invite my mom's friends who host a shower to the wedding?