First and foremost, it is very important that you know we are a very non traditional couple from very non traditional families.
FI and I are pregnant and will be at the wedding. Everyone is aware and excited as far as I know. MOH will also be heavily pregnant at the wedding, and the other bridesmaid just found out a few weeks ago that she is, too! It's crazy, but super exciting.
We have decided to embrace this entirely and make the theme "and baby makes 3!" It won't be like a baby shower or anything like that, but the colors are soft pinks and blues (BMs in soft pink dresses, groomsmen in light blue ties) and there will be a lot of baby's breath and other related things.
The problem is, BM 3 is NOT pregnant. Obviously I don't want her to get pregnant for the wedding, but it will not make sense if she is up there when everyone else will be obviously pregnant and that's the theme. I feel like she will understand if I ask her to step down. She can still wear a matching dress if she wants, but don't want her in the actual ceremony at this point.