So my FI we both have HUGE families. I have 24 Aunts and Uncles, just on my Mom's side of the family. I have double the amount of cousins on just my Mom's side - and NONE of them get along. I am close with some of my cousins, but some of them I haven't seen to or even talked to in several years. Do I have to invite them? We have to cut our list somewhere and I would hate to cut off people who are actively part of our lives to invite cousins we never see! My other worry is that a lot of them do not get a long, there are a few that have someone "estranged" themselves from my family and have made really, poor decisions, so in a way I don't feel like I need to invite them. I am worried about drama going down at our wedding if they are there. Some of my cousins I am very close with and definitely want to invite. I do'nt know what to do!