So- are people returning your RSVPs?? We have had tons of people tell us, yes, we are coming, but I have not received their cards back in the mail. How hard is it to check yes and put it in the pre-stamped and addressed envelope and return it? I still have a week until the RSVP deadline, but, I'm getting nervous. What do I do??
Re: RSVPs
The only thing I can think to do is wait until the deadline date, and then get busy calling. Even if they've told you "yes" or "no" in the past, I'd still call and politely mention that you are worried their return got lost in the mail since you've not received it, and you needed a definite count for your caterer.
They'll come eventually. We sent out our invites right after Christmas and it took about two weeks until they finally started to trickle in. I do have a feeling we'll be making phone calls though.
Then the snow came and messed it all up so I guess it didn't matter anyway.