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Is this the day for weirdos or what?

I replied to a crazy chick over on Just engaged about how she wanted to force her BF to propose.... so they could not get married for 5 years.  ooookay.  I gave a nice reply, and then I checked my pm's.  She sent me a PM, asking me to delete my post so her BF doesn't see it.  Yes, I was the only one who quoted her.  And another girl quoted her response.

Seriously.  If you can't handle a mature conversation with your boyfriend about how badly you want to get engaged, you should not get engaged.

I just hope SarahSmile doesn't get a headache over this. :(
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    She sent me a PM too.  Yeah she is a little crazy.

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    I think it is weirdo day. Things were really calm for awhile, but the crazy has hit the fan again. There's the honeymoon registry crap that people are still arguing over and now a girl on Attire asked if we liked some earrings she was going to give as a gift to her BM. I told her that they should get something else (which they are) because something for her wedding isn't a gift. She said she doesn't agree with that rule, because that's what she's always gotten in weddings. Where does all the stupid come from?
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
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    So what do you think Red.  Are you going to delete so she can hide?

    On the good hand though, I'm glad to have something to actually want to reply to around here. 
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    Isn't it engagement season now so the crazy goes up?
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    Yes, weirdos abound.  Then again, what would TK be without the cyclical nutjobs?
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    Sounds like time for me to board hop
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    Mutley! How come you don't come over here much?
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    Y'all should see all the lurking MUD crazies that came out on the WP last night and today to "discuss" whether a pants suit on a woman is considered formal wear. The OP got the advice and ideas she needed within the first few posts, and then all these weirdos came out of the woodwork to throw in the "Its my day you, will do what I want" card.  I think its still being discussed, which is a recent record for that board.

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    I'm not deleting. She posted & I responded. I think it is all based on her immaturity, maybe this will help her think about the situation more.

    I haven't responded to her PM &  I plan to ignore her from here on out.

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    Hiya Roxy,
    I am not quite sure honestly.  As of late, I have felt more of the urge to come on over.  Maybe tonight will be my night. 
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    See, now I'm a little happy in my pants that there are some places where people are still alive!

    I didn't ignore her PM, and I definitely don't intend to delete because she's realized she looks bad.
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    edited December 2009
    Wait.  Red, you got a PM as well.  You didn't even quote her. 

    I told her that I stood by what I said and that I hoped she would take what was said seriously.  I have no intentions of deleting. 
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    Mutley, I do not know you (or do I) but I like the cut of your job.

    However, my insomnia finally seems to be ebbing, and I can go to bed now.  Tis 4:30am here at the moment and soon the sun will come up (in 4 hours, lol)

    Ciao belli!  Have fun.
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    I KNEW this was X-posted somewhere!

    Thanks for holding back, Amoro. I can tell you are trying to be constructive over there. I think she realized she was coming across as BSC and regrets her post.
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    I came in late, so I didn't get a PM. How did she expect her boyfriend to find this? I doubt he's trolling around wedding message boards...
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
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    edited December 2009
    But aren't all 18 year boys?  That is what all the freshmen guys did on Thursday nights when I was in college.  Thirsty Thursday was only recently created.  
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    I saw that she used her real name in her SN. Wasn't sure why she wanated the posts deleted.
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
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    See, if they're together and 18 and 19 when are they going to have their slutty patch?  That is so important. 
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    Ah, true. I forgot about that special brand of boy. Well, hopefully he doesn't find her crazy here...
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_this-day-weirdos?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:91d61985-41e7-4c22-b616-f52b93a34c29Post:2312e4ee-4aea-4d41-8504-c8ab9d0766f5">Re: Is this the day for weirdos or what?</a>:
    [QUOTE]See, if they're together and 18 and 19 when are they going to have their slutty patch?  That is so important. 
    Posted by Night_Sprite[/QUOTE]
    I missed out on my slutty patch :( Ok, not a sad face, I never wanted one.I am glad FI had one though. At least he knows what else is out there and he's happy with me. I regret the one other person that wasn't FI.
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
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    I am assuming she thinks he can google her name and that thread will pop up!
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    I know I'm not perfect and such, but am glad I had the experiences I had in my late teens.  I wouldn't be the same now if not for my slutty patch then.  Fi didn't really have a slutty patch, which he is mostly okay with, I think. 
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_this-day-weirdos?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:91d61985-41e7-4c22-b616-f52b93a34c29Post:7f37236c-9225-4115-927e-7ecc7f90cf36">Re: Is this the day for weirdos or what?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I am assuming she thinks he can google her name and that thread will pop up!
    Posted by SarahSmile23[/QUOTE]

    See if my BF was sitting around googling me I don't think I'd want him to propose.
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    how would you ladies feel about editing her name out of the quotes in your responses? then if she deletes her posts and wants to change her sn to something other than her real name she can't ask me or Annie to delete the whole thread because her real name is mentioned. fair compromise? you can even PM her back and pretend like you thought of it yourselves! i don't see any reason for the content to be deleted, though.
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    I don't think it is the first last name thing is the reason she wants every single post deleted (but maybe now after you told her). She thinks her boyfriend  is going to get an account on the knot & they will plan on here together (from the PM). ok no more poking the bear, I'm going to bed now too.

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_this-day-weirdos?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:91d61985-41e7-4c22-b616-f52b93a34c29Post:35dc071c-5d46-4c62-a5ee-e2755045c2ee">Re: Is this the day for weirdos or what?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I don't think it is the first last name thing is the reason she wants every single post deleted (but maybe now after you told her). She thinks her boyfriend  is going to get an account on the knot & they will plan on here together (from the PM). ok no more poking the bear, I'm going to bed now too.
    Posted by redheadfsu[/QUOTE]

    really?

    in 5 yrs?
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    According to her, it is not 'her account' but rather 'their account.'  I don't think she is afraid of him coming on.  I think that she is being 17.
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    I'm actually kind of sad she didn't post that on NEY, since JE&P has those "be nice" rules.
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