I am getting married this summer. My husband-to-be and I sent out our STDs a few weeks ago. We decided to include a +1 for people who are married, living together, in a long term relationship, and for the people in our wedding party. We have invited as many people as we can afford and were maybe foolishly assuming that would be that. I would have liked to include a +1 for everyone, but it wasn't realistic and my FI and I decided we'd rather spend our money on lots of people we actually know than on a bunch of people's random dates. Also, most of our guests know someone else at the wedding so it's not like people will be all alone.
I just got an email from an OOT cousin I'm not particularly close to but who's company I enjoy when I see her every few years. She asked if she can bring her boyfriend. I didn't know she had one.
What's a nice way of saying no, or of saying that I'll let her know in 5 months when RSVPs come in... I have a feeling this is a situation I'll be facing a lot and need to know how to handle it.
Thanks!