I cannot believe it. My wonderful son, who is my world, has gotten engaged. I should be over the moon. I was for his older brother and sister when they each got engaged and married, but they chose good people. He is still so young, I fear he does not know her well enough, and not to mention this girl has her claws dug so deeply into my son, I could lose him forever.
I've known this girls mother since I was a teen/young adult. I used to babysit for her and she was evil and manipulative even as a child. When my son brought this womans daughter over my home for the first time, she was only in middle school, and I wanted to give her the kindess and care I knew she could not be getting from her own mother. I soon realized this girl was as bad or worse than her mother. She controls my son and everything he does. She has made him change jobs, move, stop talking to friends, and she has been rude right to my face, but of course not in front of him. I KNEW he would wisen up sooner or later, but he has not, and now she has finally made him propose. I know he did not do this on his own free will. What do I do? How do I get rid of this demon trying to take over my family?