Unique Co-worker invite Question

jpharis

I think you should invite all 4. Even if you invite the 4th person, it is not like you will have to have contact with her at the wedding, and it sounds like you won't be seeing her again anyways. So it would be better to invite her so you don't put the other 3 co-workers in an awkward position.

pantinkins

I agree with spechtholdn.

I wouldn't invite the 4th person, especially if you're hoping the whole time that she doesn't show. I would be upset if I invited someone out of fear of their hurt feelings.

One of my coworkers tried to bully me into inviting her. She told me she was going to crash my reception regardless of whether I invited her. I didn't.

It's hard to cut people and it's a little awkward when you run into them later, but in the end it's probably the right choice.  Money and space are usually an issue and at some point you have to be ruthless.  If this were about a family member, I think there would be more to debate about, but since it's a coworker you don't have a deep relationship with, cut her off the list.

CynthiaHiatt

Yep, an awkward postion. I recently started a new job where the person I replaced got married. Everyone at the office received an invitation except me and that was understandable. But I felt sorry for the bride because lunch conversation was them asking me what was etiquette and what should they spend for a gift, etc.  If one didnt go, none were going. Finally convinced, they all went.  I would invite her.  They will keep her inline and youdont have to be buds because of it!!!