How accurate do you think this is?

StephBeanWed61502

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How accurate do you think this is? : Who said anything about him?  They get ME more psyched about giving a BJ. 
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]

Point taken.  I was thinking of it more in the context of Cosmo's "How to Please Your Man"-type articles.

mari0225

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How accurate do you think this is? : Who said anything about him?  They get ME more psyched about giving a BJ. 
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]

Same here!

adamar15

Oh god my first BJ was soooo awkward. 

mari0225

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How accurate do you think this is? : I was super nervous to give my first BJ... I read every magazine and internet article I could find, haha.
Posted by angelstar975[/QUOTE]

Haha mine was with FI he had to tell me what to do, cause I had no clue and then he jerked and I bit him...bless him his eyes watered and he said, "Well we can try that again later."

MyUserName1

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[QUOTE]Oh god my first BJ was soooo awkward. 
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]

<div>Should have read more Cosmo.  Maybe a chocolate covered cherry would have helped.</div>

baystateapple

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[QUOTE]Oh god my first BJ was soooo awkward. 
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]
If anyone says that their first wasn't, I'm going to call that person a liar.

mari0225

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How accurate do you think this is? : If anyone says that their first wasn't, I'm going to call that person a liar.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]

For real!

adamar15

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How accurate do you think this is? : If anyone says that their first wasn't, I'm going to call that person a liar.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]

Good point.

angelstar975

FI said mine was pretty good, at the time. I think I've definitely improved in the 8 years between now and then though.

baystateapple

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[QUOTE]FI said mine was pretty good, at the time. I think I've definitely improved in the 8 years between now and then though. :)
Posted by angelstar975[/QUOTE]
My first with my H and my first ever had about eight years' difference.  I think I improved in that time.  I hope I did.  My first was major awkward turtle.

MyUserName1

I think mine was more awkward for him than it was for me.  It was his first too, so he came so fast I didn't have a chance to screw anything up.

mari0225

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[QUOTE]FI said mine was pretty good, at the time. I think I've definitely improved in the 8 years between now and then though. :)
Posted by angelstar975[/QUOTE]

I hope I have gotten better, I haven't bitten him at least though I cannot manage to do it without gagging still and I make him take a shower first, poor guy.

dumdumfroggie

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[QUOTE]I think mine was more awkward for him than it was for me.  It was his first too, so he came so fast I didn't have a chance to screw anything up.
Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

<div>I was his first too, so there was no pressure there.</div><div>
</div><div>The first, however, I was young and I'm sure it was bitey.</div>

mica178

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How accurate do you think this is? : My first with my H and my first ever had about eight years' difference.  I think I improved in that time.  I hope I did.  My first was <strong>major awkward turtle.</strong>
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]

<div>Oh, the imagery!</div><div>
</div><div>I don't like sticky skin.  I don't think I'd be down with chocolate covered cherries involved in anything sexual.</div>

adamar15

Mari, thinking of you giving a BJ is like thinking of Midge giving one. 

MyUserName1

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How accurate do you think this is? : I was his first too, so there was no pressure there. The first, however, I was young and I'm sure it was bitey.
Posted by dumdumfroggie[/QUOTE]
<div>
</div><div>So you bit him and he still came quickly? Or is this two different firsts?</div>

Habs2Hart

My first with H was a disaster.  I ended up crying in the corner of the shower.  Ya, it was traumatic.  It's since much improved... I hope! 

mari0225

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[QUOTE]I think mine was more awkward for him than it was for me.  It was his first too, so he came so fast I didn't have a chance to screw anything up.
Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

It takes FI forever!

dumdumfroggie

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How accurate do you think this is? : So you bit him and he still came quickly? Or is this two different firsts?
Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

<div>Ah no, my first was about 15 years prior to being with FI, that was the more than likely bitey one.</div><div>
</div><div>I developed some skills for him in the 15 years between the first and him.  Though he has no comparison.</div>

mari0225

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[QUOTE]Mari, thinking of you giving a BJ is like thinking of Midge giving one. 
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]

Lol well I like Midge so that's good.

mari0225

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[QUOTE]My first with H was a disaster.  I ended up crying in the corner of the shower.  Ya, it was traumatic.  It's since much improved... I hope! 
Posted by Habs2Hart[/QUOTE]

I cried the first time with FI too after I bit him, I felt like such a failure.

MyUserName1

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How accurate do you think this is? : Ah no, my first was about 15 years prior to being with FI, that was the more than likely bitey one. I developed some skills for him in the 15 years between the first and him.  Though he has no comparison.
Posted by dumdumfroggie[/QUOTE]

<div>Ahhhhh, that makes way more sense.  FWIW, I was talking about the first first, not first with FI.  FI and I'd given or recieved respectively a lot of BJs before meeting each other.  </div><div>
</div><div>ETA: Mari, that's because your FI's not an overexcited teenaged boy.  </div>

Habs2Hart

I had given them, but not many (somehow I always managed to get around giving them) so in the 10 years between giving my first and giving H his first from me, I didn't improve much and didn't practice much.  What little I knew I learned from Cosmo.  Cosmo failed me. 

baystateapple

Mica, just for you:

angelstar975

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How accurate do you think this is? : Ahhhhh, that makes way more sense.  FWIW, I was talking about the first first, not first with FI.  FI and I'd given or recieved respectively a lot of BJs before meeting each other.   ETA: Mari, that's because your FI's not an overexcited teenaged boy.  
Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

My first was with FI, but it was back in the day when we first started "hooking up." There were other guys between then and when we got together this time around.

mari0225

Looking back i'm so glad FI has been so patient with me, I was so sheltered when we met I didn't even know what a BJ was!

angelstar975

I tried to avoid givng BJs for as long as I could. I had sex before I ever gave a BJ. It wasn't that I was grossed out or anything, I was just so afraid I would do it wrong and look stupid, ha.

mari0225

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How accurate do you think this is? : Ahhhhh, that makes way more sense.  FWIW, I was talking about the first first, not first with FI.  FI and I'd given or recieved respectively a lot of BJs before meeting each other.   ETA:<strong> Mari, that's because your FI's not an overexcited teenaged boy.  </strong>
Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

That's the truth!

dumdumfroggie

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[QUOTE]Looking back i'm so glad FI has been so patient with me, I was so sheltered when we met I didn't even know what a BJ was!
Posted by mari0225[/QUOTE]

<div>o_O</div>

mari0225

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How accurate do you think this is? : o_O
Posted by dumdumfroggie[/QUOTE]

That was FI's reaction too, I thought he'd have a heart attack when he found out I was a virgin. He wouldn't kiss me for weeks because he was afraid of scaring me.